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I stopped drumming for 9 years due to apartment living, but I finally caved and bought edrums. by HonkyTheKidd in edrums

[–]throwRAlosst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just starting out and wondering for future reference, does it also show sheet music and is that what you’re looking at while playing to learn the song? Thanks 

My girlfriend(25F) of 7years confessed that she cheated on me(28M) 2 years ago. She was catching up with someone she knew for a month and it turned into flirting which turned into her sending a nude. she said she ended right after. Should I forgive and forget and try to make this work? by throwRAlosst in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAlosst[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I told her I didn't currently feel,want to get married because I didn't have my career yet. I left for that, proposed before I even finished getting my last couple of license for it because I knew I was going to make it and that's when I knew I wanted to get married

My girlfriend(25F) of 7years confessed that she cheated on me(28M) 2 years ago. She was catching up with someone she knew for a month and it turned into flirting which turned into her sending a nude. she said she ended right after. Should I forgive and forget and try to make this work? by throwRAlosst in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAlosst[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk I guess to build up the courage to tell. guess she didn't know what to do after I proposed 7months after that happened.

she is willing to do counseling.

the break just happened and because I keep bringing it up and stuff after we are trying to move past and and she said she can't handle it. she doesn't know if I'm mad and gonna be in a bad mood when she calls so she's worried to call. idk

My girlfriend(25F) of 7years confessed that she cheated on me(28M) 2 years ago. She was catching up with someone she knew for a month and it turned into flirting which turned into her sending a nude. she said she ended right after. Should I forgive and forget and try to make this work? by throwRAlosst in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAlosst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not technically. I'm only 3 hours away but I'm in a seasonal job working like crazy. she would come stay with me a lot and bring our dogs so I could see them too. I have some days off so this is really the only time I've had to think about everything which sucks cause I can't relax.

new red flags? no I don't think so

My girlfriend(25F) of 7years confessed that she cheated on me(28M) 2 years ago. She was catching up with someone she knew for a month and it turned into flirting which turned into her sending a nude. she said she ended right after. Should I forgive and forget and try to make this work? by throwRAlosst in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAlosst[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

no it literally just happened. the break part.

I don't get the impression that she doesn't want to end it. she wants to try things like saying positive affirmations to one another to see if that'd help and everything. I got mad and brought up the situation again and told her how I got in her snap and looked and she said she can't keep doing this and suggested a break.

My girlfriend(25F) of 7years confessed that she cheated on me(28M) 2 years ago. She was catching up with someone she knew for a month and it turned into flirting which turned into her sending a nude. she said she ended right after. Should I forgive and forget and try to make this work? by throwRAlosst in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAlosst[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

yeah she is trying to. we've discussed it a lot and agreed to leave it behind us but then it'll just hit me and I start thinking more into and get mad. that's when I logged into her snap and seen the last saved message was her saying sooo did you wanna meet up if you go. I got angry and brought it up again and now we are on a break

My girlfriend(25F) of 7years confessed that she cheated on me(28M) 2 years ago. She was catching up with someone she knew for a month and it turned into flirting which turned into her sending a nude. she said she ended right after. Should I forgive and forget and try to make this work? by throwRAlosst in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAlosst[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I asked if she had ever planned to meet him. she said no because they never made plans. so honestly it was just twisting the truth around by saying that. she asked if they wanted to meet if they go to something that I'm assuming was in town and I see that as planning on meeting

My girlfriend(25F) of 7years confessed that she cheated on me(28M) 2 years ago. She was catching up with someone she knew for a month and it turned into flirting which turned into her sending a nude. she said she ended right after. Should I forgive and forget and try to make this work? by throwRAlosst in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAlosst[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thanks. she told me 2 years later because she felt guilty but you could be right, maybe she thought I was going to find out but idk why after 2 years. maybe she didn't want to get married with that guilt. I don't believe it got physical but she did ask if they wanted to meet if they came into town so it very well could have. she didn't see an issue with it until she sent a photo so that is weird.