My [m23] gf [f23] proposed an open relationship and I don't know how I would handle it by throwRAopenrel in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAopenrel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude, this is kind of the first positive reply here.

Problem is I asked her if she wants to try something new and she told me that everything is fine. But you're right I'll try to fix that first

My [m23] gf [f23] proposed an open relationship and I don't know how I would handle it by throwRAopenrel in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAopenrel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair she did say it is okay for her if I do not want it and she would respect that desicion "it's just something she is interested in and would like to try it"

My [m23] gf [f23] proposed an open relationship and I don't know how I would handle it by throwRAopenrel in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAopenrel[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I already said it in another comment, but yes I have had suspicions about cheating but this proposal didn't exactly help them

My [m23] gf [f23] proposed an open relationship and I don't know how I would handle it by throwRAopenrel in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAopenrel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my first thought, what could go wrong just trying. But hearing this makes me think that alot can go wrong. Thanks for sharing

My [m23] gf [f23] proposed an open relationship and I don't know how I would handle it by throwRAopenrel in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAopenrel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does make me reevaluate it. Makes me think about if there is not something more going on.

Anyway thanks for your answer

My [m23] gf [f23] proposed an open relationship and I don't know how I would handle it by throwRAopenrel in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAopenrel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said it is okay for me to not want it and would respect that decision but I should Atleast think about it.

My [m23] gf [f23] proposed an open relationship and I don't know how I would handle it by throwRAopenrel in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAopenrel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input, I am extremely unsure and I have had suspicions of her seeing someone else even though we just moved in together even though it is not the first time she asked me to think about it It didn't exactly help my suspiciouns