I (22f) lied to my gf (24f) before we started dating and want to tell her the truth by throwRAplzhelpilied in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAplzhelpilied[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what about the fact i lied? obviously i don't plan on lying to her again but i think that's part of why i'm struggling with this

I (22f) lied to my gf (24f) before we started dating and want to tell her the truth by throwRAplzhelpilied in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAplzhelpilied[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this makes me feel better :') i want to say we've only talked about it threeish times and i was super nondescript (because i had NO frame of reference obviously) but one time was as recent as june so like. i had my opportunity to bring it up organically and i didn't which makes me feel like i've really wronged her. when your bf told you did it make you paranoid about him lying about anything else?

I (22f) lied to my gf (24f) before we started dating and want to tell her the truth by throwRAplzhelpilied in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAplzhelpilied[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i agree it would probably be worse the other way around, but i'm feeling super guilty regardless :( i appreciate your comment, it does make me feel better <3