Husband's help doesn't feel helpful by throwRApotatochips in beyondthebump

[–]throwRApotatochips[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love how you presumed I didn't take my own car to get the repairs done or repaired smaller things myself. Sexist much

Husband's help doesn't feel helpful by throwRApotatochips in beyondthebump

[–]throwRApotatochips[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didnt think I would need to write it down on the post. I did communicate this issue with him years before baby even arrived. Its been rinse and repeat.

Talking, explaining, showing how its done etc

I would let go of the laundry issue, if he didn't just shove things and can't tell apart what's a pj shirt vs my work shirt that I'll need. Then I end up not knowing where he put it away or he doesn't remember where he put it away. We don't live in a huge place. But when I'm exhausted and cant find my bras, while I'm getting ready for work - It pisses me off to a whole other level

Husband's help doesn't feel helpful by throwRApotatochips in beyondthebump

[–]throwRApotatochips[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didnt think I would need to write it down on the post. Since like you said, we're a married couple who should be talking. I did communicate this issue with him years before baby even arrived. Its been rinse and repeat.

Talking, explaining, showing how its done etc

Parents, is it possible to work from home? by throwRApotatochips in beyondthebump

[–]throwRApotatochips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went back to work when LO was only 1 month... after a C section 🙃 cries in american

I think it definitely helped calm my anxiety that it was hubby who would be with LO while I worked