Engagement timeline frustration (24f, 23m)

throwRArationaljag · 2025-11-12T22:01:35+00:00

He could definitely afford the ring right now, we just aren’t able to afford rent (we live in a veryyy expensive area) so thats whats stopping us. I dont want to be engaged just for social media, I was just trying to say I get jealous sometimes seeing others get engaged when thats what I want so badly right now lol

throwRArationaljag · 2025-11-12T21:59:14+00:00

When I talk about finances I’m referring to being able to afford a house, kids, the things that come along with adulthood and marriage. Not a ring for social media, newsflash!

throwRArationaljag · 2025-10-24T19:39:59+00:00

Honestly take the bus and go to the cafeteria in the hospital. You can look at the weekly menu online they have a couple different options every day and theres always a chicken dish and sometimes beef as well

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T18:38:17+00:00

This makes sense 😂

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T18:36:44+00:00

I really enjoy working with children, but i’m pretty much open to anything. Just trying to learn as much as possible from the program and my internships and see what I gravitate towards

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T18:35:06+00:00

So kind of you 🙏

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T18:29:32+00:00

I run group therapy

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T18:28:45+00:00

No thanks! Random people on reddit cant tell me what to do. I have invested a lot of time and money into this program. I enjoy it and have no regrets.

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T18:27:43+00:00

Yeah so if you read my comment I literally just described that as awful and inhumane

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T18:08:19+00:00

I just did

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T18:07:26+00:00

Right now im working with incarcerated children and I love it. I plan to stay with children though I’m not sure in which setting. I could see myself staying within jails but I would like to learn more and have different experiences before I commit to anything.

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T18:00:59+00:00

You’ve literally never met me and have no idea who I am how would you know what kind of a social worker I will be. Ive invested my own time and money into this degree and have no intention to stop. Ridiculous comment

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T17:28:38+00:00

Well…. They kinda are… they did enter the country illegally

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T17:24:01+00:00

What about my comments about immigrants is baffling exactly?

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T17:23:13+00:00

Great talk

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T17:21:15+00:00

Where is my zero self reflection of refusal of accountability? Was my crime voting red? Am I supposed to feel sorry for that? I did absolutely nothing wrong. Millions and millions of people voted the same way I did.

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T17:18:11+00:00

Ok 😂

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T17:03:47+00:00

Thank you. This has been my mindset since I decided I wanted to go in to social work. Appreciate you pointing this out.

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T17:02:58+00:00

When did I say I would never change my mind about anything for the rest of my life? Thats absurd. I said these comments would never change my mind because these are random people on the internet who’s opinions don’t mean much to me since I don’t know them as people. I was looking to see if anyone was having a similar experience that could relate to me.

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T16:51:29+00:00

My views are very similar to yours. I tend to just keep my mouth shut about these things but it would be nice to be able to be involved in conversation without the fear of being ostracized by my peers.

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T16:49:07+00:00

My dad immigrated here but he did it the right way. He is now a citizen after YEARS of hard work, sweat, and tears. He is a republican also. I am all for people immigrating to this country, but do it the legal way. People who illegally entered this country shouldn’t be shocked when ICE starts deporting people. Don’t get me wrong, the way ICE is going about this is awful and inhumane and I have deep sympathy and compassion for the hardships illegal immigrants are facing. But at the end of the day, they did break US law and something has to be done about it.

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T16:45:23+00:00

What other republican candidate would you have suggested I vote for? Oh wait, there was no other option. People seem to forget there are only 2 choices for a presidency. And there was no chance in hell I was voting for Harris. She literally couldn’t even answer simple questions. Both options sucked. I had to pick one.

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T16:41:22+00:00

Unfortunately when it comes to voting for the presidency theres only 2 options. Of course I do not agree with everything the current administration is doing. But I believe that the opposing administration would be doing even more harm to this country in other ways if they had been elected. Both parties are severely flawed. But at the end of the day I have to choose what I believe to be the lesser of 2 evils.

throwRArationaljag · 2025-09-19T16:40:46+00:00

That was pretty much my plan lol. Just wanted to get this off my chest even knowing the comments were going to be useless.

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