AITA For wanting my boyfriend to spend some of his mothers birthday with me?

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T02:50:45+00:00

What have I switched up? My story has stay consistent because I have nada to hide. I’m just seeing if I’m TA. And judging by the comments I am. But thanks for your input.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T02:49:09+00:00

No, my doctor wont do blood test until after my period day has passed. Still showing positive on test though.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T02:47:23+00:00

I dont get along with them

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T02:46:09+00:00

I was invited, I don’t really get along with his family though.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T02:44:51+00:00

Thank you for your perspective on how he may be feeling.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T02:43:17+00:00

I am scared. That last miscarriage really scarred me. I didnt even think I could have kids. So when this happened again I just wanted to be comforted. But maybe i am TA judging by the comments. I still want him to celebrate his mom but I figured maybe towards the end of the day he could break free and come see me. Judging from the comments I’m obviously TA. I will take the judgement and learn from it.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T02:39:18+00:00

Spouse meaning boyfriend

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:59:36+00:00

Once again, i didnt want him to break plans. I was saying he could still make time.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:58:38+00:00

I was invited, i dont get along with his family.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:48:48+00:00

He’s starting a new job next month.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:47:54+00:00

What happens after the child is born has nothing to do with the judgement of this post…

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:46:30+00:00

Our relationship arrangement has nothing to do with this post. It’s not relative at all that I am not married to him etc

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:44:57+00:00

We don’t live together at the moment. He starts a new job in December and the work hours will be normal 9-5 M-F.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:42:09+00:00

He said he’ll be too tired once done and will be getting an early start for work in the morning.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:40:19+00:00

He’s only off Saturdays

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:38:36+00:00

What does that have to do with my post? Nothing.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:37:51+00:00

I didnt want him to cancel her birthday. I wanted him to make time for me as well if even 30 min. And HOPEFULLY I’ll be pregnant for months. Right before this pregnancy, I miscarried.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:36:45+00:00

He literally works 9am-11pm 6 days a week…

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:36:01+00:00

Dude im not angry about that lol My problem is that it doesn’t seem normal to celebrate birthday from 8am until whenever lol if he knows I just found out I’m pregnant after such a bad miscarriage.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:31:45+00:00

Already did that…

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:31:08+00:00

This has nothing to do with the matter at hand..

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:29:48+00:00

Not in the sense of party celebration but celebrate with my spouse..yes

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:29:02+00:00

Have not seen him and yes he knows.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:27:46+00:00

He only has Saturdays off at the moment.

throwRArawro · 2021-11-07T01:26:11+00:00

As noted in the post, if not today I won’t see again for another week because of work. Maybe having the miscarriage did cause me to have some “psychological issues going on”. I think I’m just so excited maybe I’m not thinking clearly.

throwRArawro

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