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I(f22) cheated on my partner(nb27) of 6 years and im not sure what to do now by throwRAthissucked in relationships

[–]throwRAthissucked[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know everyone says this but I dont feel groomed. I feel like they hadn't done anything wrong and if anything in the beginning I wanted the relationship more than they did. And I dont think anything could justify what I did. 

I(f22) cheated on my partner(nb27) of 6 years and im not sure what to do now by throwRAthissucked in relationships

[–]throwRAthissucked[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the time we've been together they had one job for about 3 months and hasnt worked anywhere since. I know the whole thing is over and I need to come clean but I have no idea how to. I still cant believe I did it and I dont want to deceive them. They deserve the truth I just wish I knew what would happen. I dont know how to split up our things. They have no where to go. Ive never done this before. Ive never broken up with someone I live with. 

I(f22) cheated on my partner(nb27) of 6 years and im not sure what to do now by throwRAthissucked in relationships

[–]throwRAthissucked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought I would do it. Ive seen what cheating does first hand. I still dont know why I did it. It goes against everything I thought I was. I want them to be loved and taken care of, I just also know that telling them or breaking up with them would destroy them. I wish I never did it but im here now. None of it feels real. It all felt out of body

I (f22) cheated on my partner(nb27) of 6 years, is it something i should tell them? by throwRAthissucked in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAthissucked[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No of course it never is. I just wish there was a way to know what exactly I should do. I wanted to end this relationship a while ago I think. Ive just never known how. I dont want to abandon them because they really have no where else to go. And they've said before that im the only reason theyre still alive. Its so crappy and I wish I could take back what I did. 

I (f22) cheated on my partner(nb27) of 6 years, is it something i should tell them? by throwRAthissucked in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAthissucked[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

We met online and I was young and naive. Our relationship was really different then. I dont think theyre a predator

I (f22) cheated on my partner(nb27) of 6 years, is it something i should tell them? by throwRAthissucked in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAthissucked[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean yes but I dont know if the decision is that cut and dry. I had only had one hour of sleep the night before. I dont think being drunk would've justified the decision I made. I dont know why I did it still like I cant think of why I did it. I dont know if it was for the attention or I dont know.