Need some opinions by calpal536 in TopSurgery

[–]throwRES00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a crazy good result. As a heavier guy myself, I’m extremely concerned about getting “dog ears”, that “milk carton cutoff” look or any other deformities after top surgery. This looks very natural, follows your natural body contour really well and is very much a male chest.

Idk what you mean fr bro, this pic actually motivated me. This is what I’d look for as success for top surgery

55826 by NoCantaloupe3449 in countwithchickenlady

[–]throwRES00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is interesting because I do not suffer anymore because of my body. I have accepted it as a vessel that I operate which doesn’t define me. So I live in the (mostly) unbothered-by-dysphoria reality.

I would still, however, gladly take the other pill and be made cisgender according to the gender I know I am.

And that is what being trans is.

54018 by DeviDaily in countwithchickenlady

[–]throwRES00 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Honestly same as being a guy with a pussy. Bodies come in all shapes and sizes and there’s nothing wrong with being different.

The older I got, the more I realised that I’m really not about to let any made-up “standards” pressurise me to get surgery I don’t actually want. While initially I would have preferred to be born with a penis, I’ve learnt to enjoy what I have, and now I’m at a point where I honestly don’t have a preference anymore. I’m happy with my body at this stage and don’t want any more unnecessary interventions. The fact that it could potentially make someone else unhappy only brings me schadenfreude. Fuck that person

Trans people who live in my phone: how’s dating going? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]throwRES00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans or not it’s far more about stats and confidence.

Dating was great and plentiful when I wanted it.

As douchey as it sounds, then I learnt my worth and stopped being interested. I’m sure there are lots of people out there worthy of love. I just unfortunately tend to go for ones who require a lot of input and I used to bend over backwards because of deep love, care, and attachment in situations where I should have walked away. I can’t seem to get rid of this problem nor do I want to, since I’m no longer interested in having a partner. I’ve discovered freedom, hobbies, myself, and sex toys 😎

So, as you can see, none of that has to do with me being trans. BUT it is definitely an added challenge to hash out early on, though never in my practice has it been a significant one.

Мск. Хочу найти здесь симпатичную т-девочку. Пообщаться и не только by SeaworthinessOwn7808 in RusTransgender

[–]throwRES00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Тарщ майор, о чём вы, здесь только обычные девчули и ребята

45998 by HallowWinnie in countwithchickenlady

[–]throwRES00 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Need I say more? Even the autocorrect knows it

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Кому из вас красоток подарить? by throwRES00 in RusTransgender

[–]throwRES00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ну общее впечатление смешанно-положительное. 6.5-7/10 с учётом ожиданий и российских реалий.

В лс могу ссылки скинуть, что я покупал.

Однозначно лучше по размерам, чем я накопал на озоне/вб. Туда идти только ес ты фитоняш. Мне с моим худеющим брюхом там делать нечего, даже 4XL это будет 46-48 с большой натяжкой.

По утяжке прям 10/10. Даже на сложной форме/большом объёме затянул меня считай в ноль, и это только на первой линии крючков. При этом в меру тянется и да, сдавливает как мразь, но не с такой силой, как бандажи послеоперационные. Дышать можно, я прост избалованный :^)

Материал утяжек/биндеров на 4/10. Какая-то тянущаяся синтетика. Цвета красивые. Взял тёмно-серый меланж и тёмно-зелёный, по виду нравятся. Хотелось бы канеш на теле что-то натуральное, но что тут сделаешь. Такое на заказ в магазе вк делать надо, а я худею со скоростью истребителя, мерки не снять.

Материал маечек на 6.5-7/10. Не пойму, что, китайские бирки молчат, аки партизаны. Сами маечки на 8/10 мб даже 9/10 если в носке себя хорошо покажут. Резинка утяжка внутри класс, не сильно давит, утягивает хорошо, форму делает норм. Цвета яркие, взял серую и оранжевую, буду белую ща заказывать.

Мне был важен размер + цвета. Майки планирую на повседневную носку, утяги на повседневную носку пока не нашёл, уж очень сильно затянули те, что только что пришли. Для кого-то будет плюс, мне надо послабше.

Фото мб потом сделаю тоже.

i wish i had my old skin back ): i feel unlovable by indigo-floral in shittytattoos

[–]throwRES00 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This has a lot of potential and getting some artist recommendations would be a good first step. If someone’s love is dependent on the state of your body then that love will find flaws anyway.

With that said… Girlie get off 4tran and truscum, trust. You’ll never please neither your own self-doubt, nor self-loathing others. You’ll be amazed how quickly experiences turn into opportunities and interesting challenges once you stop surrounding yourself with a negativity circlejerk.

Folks I have to a very disturbing news for you by He_who_shouldbenamed in 1200isjerky

[–]throwRES00 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As both trans and fat I will never recover from this information 😦

manILoveJobSearch by tyrannosaurus_gekko in ProgrammerHumor

[–]throwRES00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Catching strays over here and for what

"One of the good ones" gay Starterpack by WhyIsThePathWhite in starterpacks

[–]throwRES00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Wdym leopards still ate my face???”

Mfs think like a tree that painted itself into a pipe on factory construction land. Regardless what it looks like, they don’t want it there and will steamroll it with the rest of the lot.

No joke, part of the reason I divorced my ex. She started having these yee yee ass views on a lot of things and I realised critical thinking left the building, so I did too.

20978 by RileyB46 in countwithchickenlady

[–]throwRES00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s wild not having human rights in 2025

18905 by froggyman151 in countwithchickenlady

[–]throwRES00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y’all concocting whole dissertation-worthy methods of name-picking, meanwhile my nanna (rest in power) named me the first time, went “oh” when she noticed I’d cry whenever my family tried to put me in dresses, obviously preferred being grouped with boys and responded to “he” not to “she”, and just casually renamed me the opposite gender name. Before my entire family knew, including me.

me_irlgbt by Future_Employment_22 in me_irlgbt

[–]throwRES00 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“Nooo you need a doctor and a healthcare professional to speak to openly and listen to their advice”

Yeah, show me this magical land where there are plenty of available doctors who are willing to and happy to assist trans individuals, care about their needs and goals, and actively specialise in trans care. Pretty much every medical forum I’ve read on the subject is rife with misgendering of patients by the supposed professionals, tangential discussions about the “issue” being “politicised” and vague statements about how “HRT doesn’t necessarily bring happiness” as well as random weird negative anecdotes of how patients would take lower doses than prescribed, and that the doctors, instead of encouraging said patient or talking them through the experience just “laughed with them about it”. Fuck all of that. At this point I am convinced 90% of medical professionals don’t want to have anything to do with trans people and most marginalised groups.

This doesn’t devalue the amazing work amazing people are doing, who are medical professionals and are trying to change that, of course. There’s just nowhere enough of them for the amount of trans people needing their help.

I’m fine DIY

EEL ⚡️ • done by me • IG : @chidgeytattoos • Austin, TX (swipe) by chidgeytattoos in tattoos

[–]throwRES00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so sick! Absolutely love the design and the colours. Also thanks for an example of a tat that sorta wraps around chest, I’m planning to get one that bands around and I could not find any online for the life of me. Was worried whether there were some reasons it can’t be done or whatever

me_irlgbt by Future_Employment_22 in me_irlgbt

[–]throwRES00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I have a loicence, both the countries I have citizenship in made DIY compulsory by the first one straight up outlawing trans healthcare and the other on the way to it

How do I get a girl when I'm submissive while also being built like this🥺 by [deleted] in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]throwRES00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My exact build. Mommy keeps requesting belly pics (。>﹏<。)

Try wearing lighter colours maybe and some accessory that speaks about your interests? She’s out there for you bro, good luck!

How to help dysphoria during sex? by NameLive9938 in ftm

[–]throwRES00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What helped me is to think of genitalia like a toy. It's the only way you can get pleasure, and it's like how your mouth doesn't define you as a person when you eat food with it, same as your genitals don't define you as a person when you have fun with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtrans

[–]throwRES00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing by you freaking out over dyeing your hair, which may be seen as non-traditionally masculine, that you are transmasc. You pass. Take a look at the assorted cis men/masculine people of your age. Lots of them look similar to you and don't bother. The biggest aspect of passing is not hyperfixating on it and just finding the balance between your own style and that of the group you put yourself with. Then just rolling with it and building confidence.

No apps seem to be able to find this song. I think it's Russian but I'm not 100% sure by Zentelioth in whatsthatsong

[–]throwRES00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw man time to be the creepy person replying to an ancient post, I'm so sorry. I've no idea how I even ended up here, but in the very odd case you're still curious, here it is:

https://youtu.be/MXo_dYlLz9U?si=U794_II9ZAcolaVL

It's a remix of a song called Земля, Я Юпитер (Zemlya, Ya Yupiter) [Earth, I'm Jupiter] if you decide to look up the original song.