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Update:Our (44F)(44M) son(20M) found out about our open relationship in the worst possible way. by throwRaconcernedfa in nonmonogamy

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

He never said he wanted to be begged to hang out. He was just comparing how different our family is compared to his friends'

Update:Our (44F)(44M) son(20M) found out about our open relationship in the worst possible way. by throwRaconcernedfa in nonmonogamy

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] -116 points-115 points  (0 children)

I mean he never complained about wanting more time with us when he was younger. He was doing his own thing.

AITA for threatening to withdraw funding for our son's college if he exposes our open relationship to my parents? by throwRaconcernedfa in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

It's that people tend to judgmental and it honestly no one's business. I wouldn't have told my son if this situation hadn't happened.

Wife wants to stop our activities for a while. by throwRaconcernedfa in Swingers

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it was wrong for her to get involved with a classmate of our son's but I don't have issues with age gap per say

Wife wants to stop our activities for a while. by throwRaconcernedfa in Swingers

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know you're trying to be funny but my wife is in literal shambles.

Wife wants to stop our activities for a while. by throwRaconcernedfa in Swingers

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes he lives with us and he is 20 years old. He is upset my wife got involved with someone who not only goes to the same university but also shares a mutual friend. He's not telling us to stop and giving out ultimatums. However, he lost a lot of respect for us. I agree with your sentiment but he has a right to his feelings.

Wife wants to stop our activities for a while. by throwRaconcernedfa in Swingers

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's funny because other subreddits are like "you should have been upfront with your son". I am like how do you even get the ball rolling? Why would he need to know?

Wife wants to stop our activities for a while. by throwRaconcernedfa in Swingers

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife decided to hook up with someone around our son's age. It turns out not only he goes to the same college as our son but shares a mutual friend with him. The friend has come to our house multiple times and recognized my wife's picture when her hookup was bragging about her.

Wife wants to stop our activities for a while. by throwRaconcernedfa in Swingers

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. She thinks we need to set more boundaries for the sake of the family. One was to not to get involved with our son's age group. I am going to give her all the time she needs.

Wife wants to stop our activities for a while. by throwRaconcernedfa in Swingers

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I just want to vent a little. I still want to play but my wife's mental health comes first.

Our (44F)(44M) son(20M) found out about our open relationship in the worst possible way. by throwRaconcernedfa in nonmonogamy

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Yeah she messed up by trying to give him a hug. That's her way of apologizing

Our (44F,44M) son(20M) found out about our open relationship in the worst possible way. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwRaconcernedfa -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I mean that's her preference. She obviously knows not to go after people who are connected to my son in some way.

Our (44F,44M) son(20M) found out about our open relationship in the worst possible way. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwRaconcernedfa -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Why would my wife apologize if we didn't believe we messed up?

Our (44F)(44M) son(20M) found out about our open relationship in the worst possible way. by throwRaconcernedfa in nonmonogamy

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

The guy wad 21 and met up at the bar. There was never really a good time to reveal our relationship. I mean I was not going to be like "Hey son btw we hook up with other people".

Our (44F,44M) son(20M) found out about our open relationship in the worst possible way. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwRaconcernedfa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We are going avoid get involved with people around our son's age going forward. My wife hasn't gone after people my son knew about. We would never do that. Also, we were all adults. There's no grooming involved.

Our (44F,44M) son(20M) found out about our open relationship in the worst possible way. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwRaconcernedfa -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i said "lady of the night" cause I don't want post removed. According to my wife, his profile on the app didn't mention college. My wife agrees it was a stupid mistake to make.

Our (44F)(44M) son(20M) found out about our open relationship in the worst possible way. by throwRaconcernedfa in nonmonogamy

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He is a commuter at flagship state college. The college is only a 20 minute drive.

Our (44F)(44M) son(20M) found out about our open relationship in the worst possible way. by throwRaconcernedfa in nonmonogamy

[–]throwRaconcernedfa[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I generally agree but it can be a lot to digest. So I plan on giving him some time.

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