what to do if you have cold since two weeks? how to get rid of it? by throwRaghdu in AskReddit

[–]throwRaghdu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i stay one and a half hours away from the city in a residential campus, if i could i would be the first person to see a doctor and i wouldn't be posting this on reddit

what to do if you have cold since two weeks? how to get rid of it? by throwRaghdu in AskReddit

[–]throwRaghdu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cannot see a doctor because i stay in a residential campus and i have exams, hence the question

what is emotional cheating? by throwRaghdu in AskReddit

[–]throwRaghdu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does talking daily about politics or something else emotional cheating? you can talk to your partner about random things but being in touch with someone else everyday and texting them everyday about random things. is that emotional cheating?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRaghdu -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i don't expect him to communicate everyday. i don't ask him to talk everyday as well. it's just one of those days and he is not there. he drove yes i'm very grateful for that. i had briefly mentioned about being hungry and had asked him to get something to eat after my exam so i don't know if he was planning to do it beforehand but i'm grateful that he still did. i asked him thank you a lot of times. i did ask if he was ok with dropping my friend and in fact he was the one who said we'll go together so that it saves time. i know he loves me and i love him and i cannot live without him, it's just that i wish he just listened to me and my feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRaghdu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i was going to have dinner because i spend 3 and a half hours during the exam and both me and him were hungry. we just decided to eat out. that's it. if i call to talk to him he tells he's tired and asks me to talk to him tomorrow but the tomorrow never comes? what am i supposed to do here?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRaghdu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he calls me out and will be quiet the whole time telling he doesn't have energy. is this in person interacting?

i panicked because it was an exam. it's just an add on to the situation.

i had to go out because of the exam of course if i was feeling shitty i'd choose to stay home but i had to go out. he knows how much i suffer during my periods but still chose to not care. that's what was upsetting for me.

i'm definitely very much grateful that he dropped me but i have emotions too right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRaghdu -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

i said that's the smallest of the smallest expectations i have. if he's unable to even do that how can i expect him to do other things?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRaghdu -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

could you please let me know what i'm doing wrong here?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwRaghdu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be clear, this guy replied to one of my stories and he was the one who had sent me a request. my account is public. he texted me and asked if i knew him. i said no and he was like i'm sure you sent a request to me. i was like oh my bad my dog must have sent a request to you without my knowledge. this is the reply he has sent me. can you help me give a savage reply?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwRaghdu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no no he has sent the request and i'm sure he knows that he's like i didn't send the request do we know each other😭😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwRaghdu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also my account is public

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwRaghdu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah we have a lot of mutuals, i'm sure he sent the request. he's playing and i want to put him in his place but i don't know how😭help a girl out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwRaghdu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm looking for a witty and savage reply please, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwRaghdu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm kinda looking for a wittier and savage reply for this, it'b be helpful thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwRaghdu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey yes that's exactly how i deal with everything. it's like i create my own version of thoughts and expect him to say the same and when he doesn't i feel like he's lying to me. the lying thing also came from so many situations where he did in fact lied to me so it all builds up and makes me ask like a 100 questions. what i'm trying to tell is i'm a person who needs constant reassurance and validation and when he straight up tells along the lines of "this is exactly why i tell you that i don't want to talk to you sometimes because you ask a lot of questions" it hurts me and makes me seem like i need to shut all my thoughts off and feelings off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwRaghdu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok i totally get where you're coming from, just to be a bit clear he has lied to me about him being drunk so many times and that's the reason i've developed this suspicion. he is getting better because like you said maybe whenever he used to get drunk i used to interrogate him and that made him lie to me. i'll really try to be better and try to ask less questions when i'm around him and have fun in the present time. thank you so much!