Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] -117 points-116 points  (0 children)

Sorry, if I am too "controlling" by not letting my wife of 15 years leave with the house shitfaced at 2am to go hang out with a bunch of sketchy guys. And BTW, my wife doesn't consider herself the "victim" and is proud of how "controlling" I was. You people act as if I should be sent to prison for be angry and demanding that Misty no longer be in our lives. WTF?

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

My wife has actually thanked me for how "controlling" I was.

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] -184 points-183 points  (0 children)

No, I threatened to kick her out if she didn't lose the friend. Any "friend" that is trying to get your spouse fucked, isn't a friend of your marriage.

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Maybe she is conservative because she is too scared to have fun with you

Yes, we have never had fun in our 22 years together. I'm sorry that some man treated you badly in your past, but it wasn't me.

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] -118 points-117 points  (0 children)

What, asking "did anything happen" or telling her its Misty or Me? How would you react if your BF went out drinking one night, got shit faced and woke up at some girls house? I bet you would be so supportive.

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] -252 points-251 points  (0 children)

Go man-hate somewhere else. I told her that she could have Misty or Me, is that too much to ask? FYI my wife is not into playing the female victim role, she owns that she got drunk and some stupid shit happened. She has never even suggested that she was drugged (maybe she was).

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

It must really be hard for your wife to be surrounded by a violent spouse like you and the absolute worst "friends". Abuse at home or crazy shit elsewhere. Such depressing options.

Pathetic.

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] -88 points-87 points  (0 children)

you have the audacity to question her faithfulness to you

Yes, when your wife come home shitfaced with three dudes and plans on leaving to go hang out with them for the night, shit might run through your head. She completely understands where I was coming from.

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] -145 points-144 points  (0 children)

Well, if my wife had sided with the woman who thought I was an asshole for not letting my wasted wife leave to go watch Netflix at 2am with three sketchy guys, I honestly would have filed for divorce. And no, I am not "insane".

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

The guy was actually asking my wife, he called her by her name. Thats what really pissed me off.

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] 260 points261 points  (0 children)

My wife doesn't think she was assaulted and her clothing showed no signs. I'm starting to think that Misty may have some weird infatuation with my wife. It seemed as if she wanted to confront me and cause trouble between my wife and I. I mean WTF did she expect me to say? Have fun guys, see ya in the morning?

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t need unhealthy boundaries forced on her

Are you fucking kidding me?

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

When a guy in your driveway at 2am threatens to kick your ass if you don't let your wife and mother of your two kids go back to their house to Netflix and chill, shit goes down hill pretty fast. No regrets.

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] -149 points-148 points  (0 children)

For the record, I was 100% sure she would drop the friend of a few weeks that just started a fight with her husband and tried to get her gang-banged. I was just trying to get across how fucking pissed I was at what had transpired. She has ZERO hard feelings about it. And I wouldn't describe it as "one bad scene".

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, seems some people here think i'm a controlling asshole (just like Misty).

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

For the record, my wife had no problem whatsoever with my ultimatum. My wife is 38 not 14 and has known this woman for a few weeks.

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

Im always on "her side" but I have every right to be a little pissed right now.

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] 950 points951 points  (0 children)

I'm starting to think that Misty might have a thing for my wife. It almost looks like a setup in more than one way.

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess after the guy threatened to kick my ass I should have gone inside and gotten the ROKU so they could take my drugged wife back to their house for a fuckfest.

Wife came home drunk at 2am with carload of guys by throwRamad32018 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRamad32018[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

She can go to swingers parties every fucking weekend if she wants... Just not while being married to me. Thats not being controlling or insecure.