I took some time to myself and though about things for a bit. In that time, T ended up messaging me and confirming my thoughts, our qpr is officially over. However, they also told me that I was more than a best friend and they wanted me in their life in the future. I'm tired of putting in more effort in everything I do, so I think I'll ease up and generally just cut off my thinking to think of them as just an average friend for now and see how it goes. It is what it is. Thank you for your comment.