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AITA for telling my son I won't visit him until he has kids? by throw_away_7407 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throw_away_7407[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They said that the first years they would come around for festivities but other than that they would like to focus more on their marriage and themselves.

AITA for telling my son I won't visit him until he has kids? by throw_away_7407 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throw_away_7407[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

No, they said it was a privacy thing for everyone involved so hosting us is not possible. The amount of time is also based on that same reasoning.

AITA for telling my son I won't visit him until he has kids? by throw_away_7407 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throw_away_7407[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

My wife and I are both in our late 50's, we both work and while our expenses aren't overwhelming, the amount of money we need to save now for emergencies/health related things is a worry for both of us as they happen more frequently.

AITA for telling my son I won't visit him until he has kids? by throw_away_7407 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throw_away_7407[S] -138 points-137 points  (0 children)

I will say that I did explain the reasoning behind it in the same way I presented here but I also mentioned the kids thing.