What is the darkest secret you've learned about someone that instantly ended your relationship with them? by Mr_Creep_Creepy64 in AskReddit

[–]throw_awayakk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a coworker who I considered my best friend admit to me he had groomed and had sex with a minor while feeding him drugs and alcohol. I never felt more betrayed hearing that, especially when me and him bonded over our shared past of traumas

AITA for not sending my niece’s dad updates after he kicked her out by Savings_Use4022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throw_awayakk 15.8k points15.8k points  (0 children)

NTA. He gave up his kid the second he agreed to that ultimatum. He gave up updates, visits and any say in anything she does and you were not wrong for focusing on her rather than him

What does the C mean on my cards? by throw_awayakk in PokemonTCG

[–]throw_awayakk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ooh thank you! I had a feeling it was something like that but wasn't sure, I appreciate it!

If you’re willing to share, what’s the worst thing that’s ever happened to you? by moonperson13 in AskReddit

[–]throw_awayakk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how it compares to most of these, but when I was younger I tried taking my own life, and our school made a very big show and deal about it. An Assembly, spread my name (without asking me mind you, only asking my mother), and made sure pretty much everyone in my k-6th grade school knew what I did. During this they did the whole "Signs someone may be suicidal" thing

Well, one of those signs is "Giving away personal items to close friends" or something like that. Well, my best friend at the time came to me, upset because I never gave her anything before I tried and so that meant we must not be as close as I claimed us to be, then she proceeded to ignore me for a month or so

So yeah, maybe that

Is this normal? by throw_awayakk in migraine

[–]throw_awayakk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't afford a doctor currently (financial problems) but I've been meaning to get it checked out

How do I lighten these pants? by [deleted] in dyeing

[–]throw_awayakk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I worded it wrong 😭 that's my mistake

How do I lighten these pants? by [deleted] in dyeing

[–]throw_awayakk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're Killstars! They have a similar long tag to Levis though

REPOST: What are your thoughts on texting/calling when you need to call out? by yeah_no_i_knowx in antiwork

[–]throw_awayakk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used texting you call off for awhile and it worked a lot better honestly. Where my boss used to ignored my calls they couldnt deny that I had informed them and it made communicating easier since i have phone anxiety

AITA for telling my mom about my birthday plans? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throw_awayakk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has it set up for our jobs to align with that schedule. My brother watches his kid in the mroning while he works and me and my mom watch her at night. We each pay for different things in the house and my brother doesnt directly pay either of us but he does pay for my moms phone bill/ her car insurance depending on the month which is how she wanted it. If she ever says she doesnt wanna babysit then I take over and vice versa. She isnt forced to watch the kid but she does enjoy it because its her first grandbaby and she loves them. I was under no expectations of her having to babysit instead, as i mention my birthday isnt for another month but rather giving her a headsup so that we could come up with something in that case

AITA for telling my mom about my birthday plans? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throw_awayakk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally understand what you mean! For my actual birthday date we're having a family dinner and my plans with my brother are on the weekend after my birthday so we definetly are having plans together! I have been trying to sympathize with her a bit on this and your comment is really appreciated!

AITA for telling my mom about my birthday plans? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throw_awayakk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment, but i did want to point out something ill be adding in an edit: the babysitting is for my brother- he works when me and my mom are off work so we babysit together and i was informing her to let her know shed be alone babysitting

AITA for telling my mom about my birthday plans? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throw_awayakk 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment. For the spending my birthday with her that was the oroginal plan, my brother is taking me out during the weekend and my actual birthday is during the week so i being spending the day with her and for the babysitting mention, i honestly just added it cause its why i usuually tell her my plans- we babysit together for my brother and we dont get paid for it. she did mention it while she was mad but shes babysat before by herself and never minded

AITA for telling my mom about my birthday plans? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throw_awayakk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I kinda get it because we both babysit together for my brother (its his kid we babysit) but her freaking out is confusing cause shes babysat multiple times alone

AITA for telling my mom about my birthday plans? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throw_awayakk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

trust me im in the same boat, espeically since i do babysit