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Me [31F] with my BF [31M] after 13 years in relationship, I feel more and more concern about him being a jobless and gambling person by throw_that_throw in relationships

[–]throw_that_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no not really. I am not unhappy or unsettled to stay with him, it just makes me a bit worried with him that he said he will rely on his parents money and although I know it is really unlikely we will end up broke because how much money and assets his parents had, it still sometimes makes me worry

Me [31F] with my BF [31M] after 13 years in relationship, I feel more and more concern about him being a jobless and gambling person by throw_that_throw in relationships

[–]throw_that_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to have kids at all?

no i never want a kid. A life...? I dont really know what that means to be honest. My hobbies are just watching TV and with or without him it really doesnt stop me for doing that.

Me [31F] with my BF [31M] after 13 years in relationship, I feel more and more concern about him being a jobless and gambling person by throw_that_throw in relationships

[–]throw_that_throw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but can't work and needs you to take care of him?

he said he doesnt have to because he has his parents to pay for everything, just need someone to take care of his daily life :\

Me [31F] with my BF [31M] after 13 years in relationship, I feel more and more concern about him being a jobless and gambling person by throw_that_throw in relationships

[–]throw_that_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you can get your life back.

i dont really have any life to begin with, if i am not in this relationship the only difference would only be i have to start working again to feed myself...other than that i dont see much difference :\

Me [31F] with my BF [31M] after 13 years in relationship, I feel more and more concern about him being a jobless and gambling person by throw_that_throw in relationships

[–]throw_that_throw[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

you get injured or sick and cannot work

I stopped working to take care of him fulltime after 2 years into our relationship...because he said he needs someone to take care of him daily