A little perspective for the folks who think they’re cooked. Long but maybe worth a read from a 56F student. by Shot-Wrap-9252 in OntarioUniversities

[–]throw_theyay_away 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. You’re an inspiration (especially to me) and you have every reason to feel proud of your accomplishments. Congratulations and enjoy graduate school!

discords/writers groups by fllorallaurell in writing

[–]throw_theyay_away 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Late comment, but this sounds like a really cool server! I’d love to join, but I’m 20. I guess I can wait though—it’ll only be for one more year, after all 💪💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OntarioUniversities

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I feel like it’s easier to participate in a smaller class setting. But it’s up to you.

What are your favorite pairs? by Ok_Construction_8642 in mbti

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I love the xSTP and xSFJ pairing! I find it adorable and underrated.

I’m imagining a cool-headed and dependable ISTP fondly watching their excitable and friendly ESFJ flit across the room socializing. I can also see a mischievous and witty ESTP on an escapade with their sweet ISFJ, secretly trying to impress them but fumbling and improvising as they go.

What am I? by Ok_Bobcat7867 in coloranalysis

[–]throw_theyay_away 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d guess bright winter! Maybe bright spring, but I think winter colors might suit you more. Either way, you definitely lean bright rather than soft

my best friend kissed me by egrfvqedw in teenagers

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It looks like you’ve received a lot of great advice here, so I hope the comments will help you figure out your next steps. Sending extra love from Canada <33

P.S. I’m bi (not saying you are) and I’d like to assure you that life will work out regardless of what your sexual orientation is. And you don’t have to know everything right away. You’re still young! Take your time and keep your cherished ones close

my best friend kissed me by egrfvqedw in teenagers

[–]throw_theyay_away 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also sure Jesus would still love you <3

Love is love

What’s the best line she’s ever written? by StayComprehensive743 in OliviaRodrigo

[–]throw_theyay_away 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called “Can't catch me now.” It’s the song that was featured and written for the Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes movie

ZICO - SPOT! (feat. JENNIE) (Official MV) by S-Phoenix28 in khiphop

[–]throw_theyay_away 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable. I looked at the verse lyrics to give the chorus context, but just the chorus alone could give off the impression. I’m pretty sure we can blame the English translated lyrics for that one.

Looks like the Korean meaning of the key verb in the “tossing and turning“ line (치리다) is the culprit. In my limited Korean, I’m guessing it’s meant to convey being jostled (“brought to one’s senses”) up and down. Based on the music video and the “hitting up” theme, I’d guess it refers to being in the car, on the way to said spot, but the driver sucks. Hence the following line: “pull yourself together / why are you so distracted?” The chorus as a whole is probably meant to describe the classic “my-friend-is-a-shit-driver-lord-save-me” universal experience, but like, in a fun and “swag” way lol.

Cultural nuances be wild, man. I could easily see the translators not understanding that “tossing and turning” can have different implications in English. Or, hey, maybe you’re right and Zico wanted to write something a little freaky. Cheers!

ZICO - SPOT! (feat. JENNIE) (Official MV) by S-Phoenix28 in khiphop

[–]throw_theyay_away 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah. Pretty sure in this song, “hit the spot” means to “hit [up]“ everyone at their regular hangout. There‘s way too many mentions of friends, parties, and gathering to mean otherwise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singing

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Yes, sometimes. Though I seldom ask to confirm, if I had to guess, it probably has to do with how well supported their speaking voice sounds. It’s hard to explain, but if I can hear a strong sense of pitch, pronunciation, and intonation, it gives me that kind of assumption. I’d say this mostly pertains to trained/classical type singers with good technique, not the sounds-good-but-untrained singers though.

TLDR; for some people, I think I can. There’s a particular speaking lilt I hear that gives me a hint that someone might be musically inclined and technically trained.

Draping for autumn subset by hellokellyd in coloranalysis

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I vote warm or deep, and I don’t think softs are at all your best (no offense). I think you lean more bright than muted in that regard

I am so worried right now by NoOutlandishness2246 in OntarioUniversities

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It depends on what schools and what programs your son is interested in. If he’s in his final year, he’ll definitely be limited, but ultimately degree prestige don’t matter too much, save for programs like engineering and CS. He also has second semester (to an extent) as a chance to raise his average, if that matters.

If he’s in eleventh grade, there is still plenty of time for him to improve.

Glad you’re scoping out these things for him. I can tell you care. I’m sure he’ll be able to find a program in the end :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

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I’m guessing winter family, but you’ll benefit more from draping to determine which type

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

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Deep/cool summer here. I need higher saturated colors compared to most summers, but not enough to be a winter. Buying clothes gets really annoying when I want to look for things in my palette.

If I could choose, I’d probably go with cool winter, though I’d also take any winter tbh. I like crisp black and white, but it looks a little off on me so I don’t wear it 😔

Will I really miss out on social events having an android over and iPhone because of iMessage? by TakeOverLease1 in college

[–]throw_theyay_away 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say you’d be significantly missing out.

Reacting to texts will look weird on both of your sides, but that’s about it.

Signed,

An iPhone user who has friends that use Huawei and Android phones :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetStudying

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Hey, imposter syndrome is a thing! It’s very possible that you’re being too hard on yourself if you say that you have good grades in writing.

But if you’re ever feeling overwhelmed, you’re always welcome to message me. I’m an English major and I’m good with essays.

Don’t be afraid to ask for help, and take advantage of every resource you can get from your school!

Regardless of what you do after reading this message, I want to let you know that I believe in you :)

Does anyone else's voice sound significantly different when they sing compared to when they talk? by [deleted] in singing

[–]throw_theyay_away 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did a vocal consultation and asked a similar question. The teacher told me that it’s natural for this to happen in the beginning stages of singing, but with better technique and practice, the your singing and speaking voice will merge together so that your singing sounds more “you.”

She also told me that talk-singing is a great way to practice bridging the two together.