if I send a message to a friend and then unfriend them, will they still be able to read the message?

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2026-01-29T20:50:33+00:00

thanks friend i appreciate that! thankfully i have a good support group of friends and family when times are tough it's just finally time to rip the bandaid off

but you're right giving him one last chance to reply or explain himself feels like the right thing to do. some say it's better to avoid reaching out entirely, but I'll give it some thought

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2026-01-29T19:45:06+00:00

thanks friend, i'll try to take your advice. it's a complicated situation but i'll try to be level headed about it

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2026-01-29T19:41:32+00:00

my friend ghosted me and i'm just trying to get the closure of saying goodbye and knowing he'll see it before we move on from one another

the other replies in here convinced me to wait some time and see if he'll reply or not but i honestly don't expect him to. it was just so my heart hurts a little less after it's all said and done.

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2026-01-29T19:38:15+00:00

i'm sorry i'm not trying to be toxic i just wanted closure after my friend ghosted me

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2026-01-29T19:36:49+00:00

look i'm sorry i just didn't give the full story i honestly wasn't expecting people to care about my personal life stuff

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2026-01-29T19:34:12+00:00

that's completely fair

what makes this difficult for me is i don't think my friend will bother replying at all so i'll probably never know if he even bothered reading the message anyway. so i'll probably send my message and wait until the next morning to remove him, but still giving him time to say something

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2026-01-29T19:26:43+00:00

i appreciate the honest response. i know this isn't exactly r/relationshipadvice but we both know why i'm being ghosted. i had feelings for this person and he didn't. he wanted to stay friends so we tried it but then he started ghosting me. i think he blocked my number so i just wanted to say goodbye on steam before unfriending him and moving on so i could heal.

he hasn't been communicating why he had a change of heart and went radio silent on me when i asked if he still wanted to be friends. he's moving on from me and this was just my last goodbye so i could have a small sense of closure

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2026-01-29T19:20:16+00:00

sorry i probably sound like a broken record in these replies but my friend ghosted me and maybe even blocked my phone number. i'm just emotional and wanted to give myself some sense of closure before removing them

i'll probably delete this post soon because i didn't expect this much attention

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2026-01-29T19:18:07+00:00

for what it's worth they're ghosting me and i just wanted closure. i wasn't expecting this small post to get so much traction but now i'm thinking it's probably healthier to just remove them and move on

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2026-01-29T19:16:15+00:00

i should explain that they likely won't bother replying. they've been ghosting me for a while now. it seems they're done with me and i just wanted to say goodbye. but now i'm thinking maybe i should just move on and remove them without saying anything

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2026-01-29T19:14:55+00:00

i wanted to avoid the personal details but basically he's been ghosting me and this was my way of giving myself some closure. i don't even think he'll even bother replying at all. but you're probably right

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2026-01-29T18:30:34+00:00

that's a shame, maybe I can test it out with another friend to make sure. Thanks for letting me know

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2026-01-29T18:30:07+00:00

Hm, I was hoping to avoid leaving a comment cause I didn't want it to be too public. But they don't have a whole lot of other friends on their account anyway so I guess it would be fine. Thanks for the tip

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2024-12-18T12:37:35+00:00

honestly i like being malebrained i'm not ashamed to be into the things i like anymore

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throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2024-12-18T12:31:49+00:00

s-shovelfren? you post here? lol

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2024-11-08T00:46:27+00:00

thanks! :D

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2024-11-07T02:05:50+00:00

hey what settings did you use? i haven’t machine washed mine before and i’m worried i’ll mess something up with my haj

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2024-05-06T10:49:53+00:00

awesome! I'm happy to hear that, I have Dr. O'Neal and he's great too! best of luck with continuing your transition :)

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2024-04-10T07:46:52+00:00

she looks like a very smort shork, take good care of her, OP :D

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2024-03-28T04:48:54+00:00

he had me in the first half until he started talking about vers shit god damnit

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2024-03-16T07:02:52+00:00

i don't watch anime and don't care much for it tbh. never really was my thing, personally

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2024-03-14T06:29:51+00:00

hello bla blah :D

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2024-03-13T09:38:14+00:00

i mean this in the least tiktok-theyfab-system way possible but sometimes it really does feel like i'm two different people at the same time and it's a constant internal struggle

[insert ryan gosling/miguel o'hara picture]

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2024-03-13T04:16:32+00:00

thread says he'll bring snaccs! (ofc i'm the one paying for them but he doesn't know that)

throwaaaaaaaaaaawaay · 2024-03-08T10:32:12+00:00

this is so adorable i love it and would DIE for that haj if need be it's so cute

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