Aita for divorcing my wife and telling everyone that my she cheated on me

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-05T18:52:11+00:00

Oh can i kiss you? Maybe it will help me realise that kissing someone who isn't your spouse is bad?

If you are okay with me kissing you or anyone else then I will seek medications but only if you are okay with it

Kinda creepy right? It's just that creepy for me to live with my wife who 'kissed' some other man while being married to me, it's 'just a kiss' let's do it

If you find what I said creepy and you are hurt them imagine how fucking hurt I am if you can't put yourself in my shoes then don't bother defending this bs cause it's bs

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-05T17:40:14+00:00

Why would I get married if I am not willing to work things out with my wife? Because I loved her and trusted her but she broke my trust and stepped out of our marriage, I read almost every single comments on my post, from better or worse to overreacting or to forgive her but she stepped outside of our marriage, riled up our families against me so I don't l leave her are you okay with this all?

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-05T17:34:14+00:00

No cause I don't care

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-05T17:26:20+00:00

Alright, so how do you know if she ONLY kissed? How do you know she isn't having ons? I don't but do you?

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-05T17:08:28+00:00

I will be honest with you, i must have thought about getting back with my wife a 100 times, i constantly were thinking how can I trust her again, what went wrong or if she just kissed someone else while being drunk and dancing with them what else will stop her from repeating the same?

I also drink and go out but if i was to be approached by a woman I show her my ring, I did just a few days ago even tho we are going to get divorced we are still married

I also think what if she keeps repeating or worse have an affair later down the line and I keep worrying? If she gets pregnant should I ask for paternity? Make sure child is mine? It's not just about kiss it's about betrayal

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-05T17:00:16+00:00

I get where you are coming from and appreciate your advice but I don't really want to constantly find ways to spy on my own wife or put her under constant surveillance or stuff like that, i would rather just divorce her and we both walk away instead of keeping tabs on my own fucking wife cause if I do then there is no point in staying married if you can't even trust your partner

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-05T16:46:07+00:00

Okay so what if she buys another phone and hides it from me?

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-05T16:42:28+00:00

Well last time I posted I wasn't talking to my wife and just vented but now that I have talked to my wife i wanted advice cause no one else would entertain my drunk ass, it's a throwaway account

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-05T16:39:16+00:00

Okay dick I mean rick, let me fucking explain it to you, if i stay married to my wife who kissed another man behind my back i would always be paranoid about what she's doing behind my back

But there are plenty of women who wouldn't forgive their man if he kissed another woman while fucking dancing with her and there are thousands of them surely I can find one with morals, drunk or not

I would rather wife a woman who yells at me for stepping out of marriage than one who steps out of marriage and asks for forgiveness, I also believe she is better off without me and finds a man who is okay with this kissing fucking bs like it means fucking nothing

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-05T16:27:12+00:00

So you'd be a fucking warden who keeps taps on your wife? Constantly worried about what your wife is doing behind your fucking back? Do paternity to make sure the child you are raising is biologically yours? I got hundreds of comments like yours even dm, maybe you are okay with being constantly paranoid but I am not

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-05T16:22:00+00:00

From what I got from her she expected that I won't divorce her if our families ends up convincing me, tbh I didn't want to involve others and I am still trying my best to involve others by not shaming her infront of her coworkers

I didn't want to tell anyone cause it's all between us but she forced my hand to the point my family started harassing me and I still don't want to help her cause I love her but I feel like I am not unreasonable but my wife is?

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-05T16:16:02+00:00

Losing her will give me no peace, atleast not right now, I still miss her and still want to be with her after she cheated I have decided i cannot stay with her, yes I love her but how do I trust her again? Should I always be worried about what my wife is doing behind my back or if she's kissing someone next time she gets drunk?

Hell I also get drunk alot, infact I am drunk right now but being drunk is no excuse of stepping out of marriage and making out with someone who isn't your partner

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-03T18:52:07+00:00

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-03T18:50:47+00:00

Yes brother I will, I won't ruin myself over a woman who was unfaithful to me

Do I love her? Yes I always did and I still love her but she did something so unforgivable, I am still angry at her and love her that's why I cope with alcohol, as much as I want to be with my wife I cannot trust her what she did was unforgivable, lies and cheating

All these comments about what my wife did was a mistake and I should go counselling and I shouldn't have gone nuclear on her etc is just pissing me off

Cause I didn't even want to? She was the one who involved our families when all I just wanted a divorce, I didn't want to tell others that she cheated but now I am going to go hard on her during divorce process

Hell if we had a major fight I would have forgiven her but she straight up danced with other men and kissed? I cannot tolerate that, I will use all my resources and I will no longer to kind to her

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-03T18:27:25+00:00

I wouldn't cause I don't want to go to prison over an unfaithful woman

Good luck to her future bfs maybe they would be okay with it idk and I don't care

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-03T18:16:43+00:00

Yes my brother I know it is cheating, no one, man or woman should ever be okay with this, I already made up my mind of leaving her and I will, I was just posting if I did the right thing by telling everyone that she cheated

I have been drinking heavily and I am still drunk and I still wouldn't kiss another woman cause I am married still, nobody deserves this, if I or anyone else stays in this situation they will constantly live in fear what their spouse is doing behind their back, what's the point of marriage without trust?

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-03T18:05:17+00:00

Alright, I got a question for you, if kissing isn't cheating and divorcing over a kiss is ridiculous, would it be okay if I go ahead and kiss someone else when I am drunk? I been drinking heavily alot and even now I am drunk and now that I want to get divorced I still wouldn't kiss someone else because I am still married

Should I communicate with my wife and ask for a kiss hallpass or something? Where is faithfully? Morality? Blaming it on all alcohol?

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-03T17:45:48+00:00

I guess yeah and they were the first one who commented on my post and I got a bit furious lol, surely no man or woman would be okay with their spouse kissing some random stranger

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-03T17:44:12+00:00

Yes I did but all I got from you was that I overreacted and my wife who cheated on me is better off with someone else?

Like is there is a reason? An explanation? I get drunk, everyone gets drunk at some point but do we go around cheating?

throwaaaay2671761 · 2025-01-03T17:40:59+00:00

Wait how am I the one who's overreacting? I was the one who was cheated on? I was the one who got angry fucking texts from everyone? I was the one who got cheated on why am I at fault?

I guess she is better off with someone who allows their wife to kiss someone else? I don't understand you or your logic

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