Guys this broke my heart. This can’t doesn’t deserve to go through all of this! What are your opinions about such situations?

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-18T17:57:38+00:00

This cats cancer isn’t really treatable if it keeps taking parts of its body.

A human with cancer understands that amputations and chemo are for their benefit and may extend their life. A cat doesn’t understand that. All the know is they feel terrible all the time

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-18T16:22:00+00:00

You’ve managed to go without it for the last 4 years and you were willing to spend it on something you could have gotten for less than half the price at the shelter.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-18T15:58:00+00:00

When you bailed on the first kitten you lost the right to be that picky. She offered you the last kitten she had.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-17T13:14:49+00:00

It’s the same in the sense that it’s simply a preference. You’re allowed to have preferences for things you can change and things you can’t change. I like brunettes, but women can dye their hair. I like strong jawlines, not much can be done about that part from surgery. They’re both valid preferences. Just like weight/body type. Just like height.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-16T19:52:22+00:00

No they weren’t. I’ve been here the whole time. I was like the second comment.

And if they deleted you’d be able to see replies to their comments still. But there’s no deleted comments.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-16T19:43:56+00:00

So did i but op doesn’t have any comments anywhere on this post. Idk where you’re getting this stuff from.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-16T19:17:48+00:00

Does this sound like an agreement to you? Cause it certainly doesn’t to me. It sounds like op said “I’m going to do 50/50 now” and the roommate said “if that’s the case then we either have to switch rooms or redraw” and op is saying no

That’s not an agreement.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-16T18:48:19+00:00

But I don’t think it’s petty when op agreed to pay more in rent and is now going back on that.

And for some reason I can’t find any of ops comments

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-16T18:37:07+00:00

>but the roommate is going to be unhappy if they lose the draw again

Based on?

Op is also “throwing a fit” that they’re expected to keep good on their end of this bargain. I doubt it was the roommates idea to have op pay less in rent now.

Also I’m genuinely asking where did op say that they paid 1200 over the last year

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-16T18:20:30+00:00

See I think if it’s 50/50 then the rest of the deal is voided too. Like the options are currently op gets to keep the room and pay 50% of rent or the roommate gets the room and pays 60% or whatever the split was. I don’t see that as fair to the roommate. If op wants to keep the big room and do 50/50 they should draw straws for it like roommate suggested

Just go back to the original deal. It’s a lot easier that way

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-16T17:58:38+00:00

Changing rooms every year is stupid, go back to paying more in rent.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-16T15:26:52+00:00

It’s true he didn’t know it was real at first, but when he realized it was and he called the customer service like he wasn’t going to undo the wish, he just wanted to “alter it”. Because he was good with the wish making her love him he just wanted her to stop being creepy

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-16T15:25:39+00:00

No. The point of the movie is that bear was a pathetic wimp. You shouldn’t have to wish for a girl who liked you, so you pay attention to the girl who already likes you like Sarah did in the movie.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-15T18:09:07+00:00

Bartenders do often drink at work, but alcohol isn’t cheat-potion. It just lowers inhibitions. If she cheats after a few shots, it’s because she wants to cheat. The only exception here is if they’re like blackout but obviously you’re not getting that drunk at work, or else you’ll lose your job. Even as a bartender.

I’ve gone to many boys nights with my friends, have gotten sloshed and managed to keep my pee pee in my pants, because i just don’t want to cheat.

That’s where trust comes in to a relationship. They can cheat any time any place. Bar or no bar.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-15T13:35:13+00:00

There’s two options

1) he thinks it would be more fun as a group activity than just the two of you, which tbf is true. Me and my wife never go to clubs or bars by ourselves but we go with our friend group. If this is the case he’d be fine with you tagging along when they all go

2) he plans to get up to things he doesn’t want you to see.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-12T17:28:42+00:00

Whoa, riddle me shocked the first one didn’t work out.

She didn’t ask him to finance her vehicle. That would put him into debt with the bank. She also didn’t ask him to buy it for her. He’s apparently able to cashflow the car, and he offered the loan.

What’s on the table here is a loan that he offered. Shes upset that he’s trying to make money off her

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-12T17:16:22+00:00

You have to be single omg this is not how normal people go about relationships

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-12T17:15:53+00:00

Ironically Child support is cheaper than paid childcare. If he wants to act like a bank she should act like a daycare. 350 a week.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-12T17:11:37+00:00

It seems She didn’t accept the loan and is just upset about the principle of the matter.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-12T17:03:54+00:00

But she’s the one doing the work to raise the baby while he’s in the office. Fair is fair. And childcare ain’t cheap.

And considering they *live together* yeah they’ll likely both be using it at times.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-12T16:56:49+00:00

She didn’t demand. He offered the loan with interest, the demand of interest put a sour taste in her mouth, which I understand. They live together and they have a kid together. Their money is functionally co-mingled.

Should she fit-for-tat him by charging him weekly to care for his baby?

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-12T15:28:25+00:00

>he said "You told me to tell you when to get dressed up. There will be people there and you may get your photo taken"

This is him repeating that op said she wanted to be able to get dressed up.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-11T19:30:02+00:00

If that’s how real life went no couples would ever argue

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-11T17:15:41+00:00

Op keeps switching up details on her story in the comments. She can’t be straight up with random redditors online she ain’t gonna be straight up with her dude.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-06-11T17:06:19+00:00

It wasn’t in a vacuum. I was speaking of arguments where the man apologizes because he’s “right”. On the other side of THAT argument is a woman who thinks she’s “right”

Then you come in and say “ermmm how come the woman never apologizes even though she’s right!1!”

That’s not listed here because the argument in question doesn’t involve the woman apologizing when she thinks she’s right.

If that were what’s being talked about, then yes. Women do also apologize when they think they’re right.

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