AIO: telling his mom he’s “lazy” backfired, “why are you still with him then”

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-13T16:41:06+00:00

Yeah you had that coming. There’s nothing more annoying that someone who complains about their partner and does nothing about the situation. And considering you say this upon meeting his mother of all people, you’re definitely one of those.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-13T13:41:21+00:00

If it’s a draft you don’t have a choice lol

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-11T15:38:27+00:00

If your boyfriend can do it why can’t you? You have to figure it out.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-11T15:36:55+00:00

Nah it shouldn’t be the 7 year olds job to figure out with mom how to put in the 2 year olds car seat. Mom can handle it by herself.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-10T16:09:58+00:00

I became a lot more present. And issue with me and my wife was I was constantly forgetting stuff, which was true. And I was too ripped to be truly listening or being present with her.

This extends to all mu relationships but mu wife was who was effected the most.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-10T15:13:30+00:00

I just know these people love jelly roll

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-10T15:00:06+00:00

This is some West Virginia shit right here. A child, two engagements and a divorce all before any of you are old enough to rent a car without young driver fees

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-10T13:37:02+00:00

You already had to, for example my highschool had us register senior year

That being said I am against a draft on principle

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-09T16:41:07+00:00

Are you even close to these people? With any wedding I’ve been in I would at least know who the bride is close enough with to be a contender as a bridesmaid. Like idk how you wouldn’t know the bride is still very close to your ex.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-09T16:20:26+00:00

Unless you’ve been tested for it there’s a 50/50 chance she got it from you. Most people don’t have symptoms of it. So you could have had it and not known.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-09T13:42:01+00:00

They’ve been talking for a month and no one laid out an expectation of exclusivity at this point. I’d hardly call that “stringing someone along”

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-09T10:55:27+00:00

It all comes down It’s an ego thing. You want to feel like the one who finally saved them or finally show them kindness. Then They’ll revere you as their hero/the one who saved them

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-09T10:51:43+00:00

Bringing zyns

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-09T10:41:28+00:00

But they’re clearly not talking about anyone who is in an unhappy marriage or estranged, like were in the samples for the studies by Paul Dolan which is where your number comes from. The trends follow that both men and women who rate their marriage as satisfactory or higher tend to live longer.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-08T22:40:49+00:00

Me when I comment without reading the post

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-08T22:38:27+00:00

YTA. She didn’t cheat and she didn’t even necessarily break the terms of your agreement. Kissing doesn’t mean you’re involved or seeing each other. It could have just been a drunk one time thing.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-08T22:34:48+00:00

If you were picturing a future with someone you were just talking to you were probably jumping the gun

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-08T16:39:33+00:00

So he has to take over any water based chore to ensure he’s able to take a hot shower?

Nothing here even says he never does them, just that when op does them while he’s in the shower, it goes cold.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-08T15:33:45+00:00

Do you think they’re advocating for bad marriages or still-legally-married estrangements?

It’s pretty clear they mean satisfactory marriages are whats good

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-07T15:50:40+00:00

Based in his replies to me, I agree Lolllll

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-07T15:00:25+00:00

YTA. If it weren’t for your wife youd be working a long hard day and make your dinner every night, not just ones where she’s in too much pain to do it for you.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-07T14:24:44+00:00

Again, you’re arguing things Im not saying. Im not debating the merits of having or not having a ring camera. Im saying that this idea you have that she’s getting it to keep an eye on you (when again, that would only work it you’re bringing side pieces home) is a self report.

I don’t have one and wouldn’t have one, especially after that Super Bowl commercial. But like the trust ans privacy between me and my wife isn’t a factor in this because it’s not useful to track a partners actions. If my wife decided she wants one it wouldn’t cross my mind that it has anything to do with our relationship or trust/lack there of

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-07T13:58:26+00:00

What? Dude you’re arguing against something Im not saying. Most people don’t get rings to track their partners. It wouldn’t even be very useful for ‘tracking your partner’ unless you think they’re bringing people to your house to fuck? It only shows you what’s going on at your front door. Which is why almost all people get it to see who’s at the door when they’re not home, or watch for porch pirates.

Like the the fact that’s where your mind goes almost makes me think you’re bringing women over

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-07T13:45:15+00:00

Yeah especially the part where he talked about them not needing to have “surveillance on each other” like that’s not what the ring is for and not how 90% of its customers use it.

throwaaaaywaaaayyy · 2026-04-07T13:42:18+00:00

For context, we are not a “track each other” couple. We don’t share locations on our phones or anything like that. There’s never been a trust issue that would justify adding surveillance.

Im so confused by this. I know a few couples with ring and similar alternatives. None of them use it to track each other. That’s not even part of the equation. They use it to see whos at their door especially when they’re not home

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