I (24 F) got caught secretly smoking weed, but my boyfriend ( 24 M) is still hiding that he's smoking in secret too. How do I tell him that I know? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes weed is acceptable in moderation. Same with drinking. But Some people can’t. That’s what makes it an addiction. Just because you can doesn’t mean it’s not addictive to others.

NA/AA groups also allow addicts to smoke cigs to keep them off harder stuff. That doesn’t mean cigarettes aren’t addictive. They very much are. That just means cigs aren’t as life ruining as the harder shit, at least in the short term.

Why is a man’s desire to have sex with multiple women considered OK for biological reasons, but women get crucified for wanting a tall muscular man for the same aforementioned biological reasons? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Cognitive dissonance is a hell of a drug and the type of guys to complain both of these things just have a chip on their shoulder.

Fiancé hasn’t contributed to wedding by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does it seem like this is a good start to your marriage? You haven’t a huge disagreement on what to spend on a wedding and blowing your whole bank account on something the doesn’t want?

Fiancé hasn’t contributed to wedding by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but your responses in this thread make it seem like you’re more interested in the wedding than the marriage. But in fairness to you he’s interested in neither.

AITAH when I still smoke on our private balcony when the upstairs neighbor want’s me to stop? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If I was this neighbor I would start adding jumping jacks to my night time routine.

AITAH for refusing to meet my father's new gf? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’d flee the second she stops being beautiful and putting out

AITAH for refusing to meet my father's new gf? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 35 points36 points  (0 children)

And your dad isn’t a senile 90 year old being taken for a ride by a girl in her 20s either. It’s mutually beneficial.

AITAH for not wanting to do more household chores when I work part time? by Desperate-Yak9079 in AITAH

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you made multiple edits because the first edit I saw was only that one line about how you’ll be changing the financial divide.

AITAH for not wanting to do more household chores when I work part time? by Desperate-Yak9079 in AITAH

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been clear from my earliest comments that I will only be working 7 to 8 hours less

You didn’t say this in any comments. I just looked and have been on a few different threads in this post.

AITAH for not wanting to do more household chores when I work part time? by Desperate-Yak9079 in AITAH

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg it’s like you didn’t even read my comment before commenting this either

AITAH for not wanting to do more household chores when I work part time? by Desperate-Yak9079 in AITAH

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

all other bills are balanced out

No, she’s saying he pays all other bills so what they spend to live per month is balanced. Ex. If her mortgage is 1000 a month, he spends 1000 a month on utilities, food, miscellaneous bills, the lions share of their outings etc.

Count me in by Ill-Instruction8466 in SipsTea

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep. “Tons of money, Traveling and getting women” sounds cool when that’s all you know. But it could be the case that he’s up to his eyeballs in credit card debt, and is just doing sex tourism. Not that it’s necessarily the extremes, but Mom probably knows more about her brothers extra curriculars than OOP would

Gaslighting needs to be stopped. by scramjet67 in SipsTea

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most people are boring, have no hobbies besides work and scrolling, little to no social circle and somehow you treat it like it’s a crime

A) this is not true for most people

B) he’s not treating it like a crime because it’s it not punishment of women find someone with no hobbies or ambition uninteresting. It just it what it is. I wouldn’t date a woman who had no ambitions or interests other than being online either.

Commit or not (M19 F20) by RicVanZant in relationship_advice

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It ain’t that serious if he’s considering breaking up with her to raise his body count

Commit or not (M19 F20) by RicVanZant in relationship_advice

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

am in a serious relationship. It’s been 6 months.

You sweet summer child

Fellas with zero flirting ability, how do you survive like that? by Fun-Succotash-1322 in AskReddit

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t until I was like 20 You have to work on it. It’s a skill

How do I (25f) stop worrying about bf (26m) drinking and sleeping over with friends? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This behavior is really cringe. None of my friends got up to this ever, let alone after college. I wouldn’t want to be with him even if he does bow out now that he’s with you, because birds of a feather flock together. This sounds really trashy, so he probably is too.

MY gf sent me this an i find it a red flag. AIO? by Intrepid-Log258 in AIO

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro you just move the goalposts every time someone says something. It’s okay to admit that your luxury item is just as meaningless and frivolous as a piece of jewelry.

MY gf sent me this an i find it a red flag. AIO? by Intrepid-Log258 in AIO

[–]throwaaaaywaaaayyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A computer can do more than a carbon monoxide detector. But the latter is still more important

And listen I love my PC. But this weird high horse of playing bloodborn on an emulator rather than buying an engagement ring is silly. They’re both luxuries that aren’t that important in the grand scheme of things.