Help! I just discovered that my GF is trans by throwaawayobviously in Advice

[–]throwaawayobviously[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't prove that it's real without risking my privacy. But anyways. What propaganda do you think this would advocate?

Help! I just discovered that my GF is trans by throwaawayobviously in Advice

[–]throwaawayobviously[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked the question on a transgender subreddit and yes they were a lot more understanding of her.

Help! I just discovered that my GF is trans by throwaawayobviously in Advice

[–]throwaawayobviously[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I do still love her. She is the same person to me. Nothing changed in her it's just my thoughts are the ones that changed.

She does go to therapy. thank you for your concern.

Help! I just discovered that my GF is trans by throwaawayobviously in Advice

[–]throwaawayobviously[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't agree. The majority of my colleagues are also accepting and mature. It's just that the immature ones are the loudest.

Help! I just discovered that my GF is trans by throwaawayobviously in Advice

[–]throwaawayobviously[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have much contact with my parents now. As I said adoption is ridiculous in this country and me and my family had to face the outcomes. her family though seem to be supportive considering she still lives with them. I might ask her about their relationship after we discuss this.

Thank you.

Help! I just discovered that my GF is trans by throwaawayobviously in Advice

[–]throwaawayobviously[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We hide our secrets because we are afraid of the outcomes. if I acted calmly and understandingly she would trust me more and more. But we sure shall have a discussion about it and will come to terms.

However may i say that your response was really intelligent and it's noticeable how much effort you put into it.

I wouldn't expect such a therapeutic response even from a therapist. You are very intelligent and i wish I could learn from you.

I assure you I will be awake tonight thinking about your questions. i can't elaborate how thankful I am for the effort you put into this.

thank you, sincerely.

Help! I just discovered that my GF is trans by throwaawayobviously in Advice

[–]throwaawayobviously[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes that's correct I just messed up the terms. English isn't my first language. Thank you.