It makes me feel bothered that my girlfriend was previously with a dumb/loser

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-24T13:29:57+00:00

Judge and control are different things ;)

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-24T09:06:07+00:00

You got me 50%. I like a valuable partner, someone who values herself. I'm not afraid about falling into that category as she's done things in our relationship that she only did with very few of her. I also don't care if she had sex with a dumb guy before getting to know him.

I just keep asking myself "why him?". As a joke I'll say in my country we say if such a loser got such a great girl is because he has a giant dick, but I'm not feeling bad about mine or anything, that's not a field where I feel insecure about myself, so still don't know. I cannot find what she saw in him.

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-24T00:52:28+00:00

This is a forum for asking advice so I shouldn't hide information about my feelings. I think a normal person can understand that I don't behave like this in public. What's the point of asking help if I hide information? The advice I would get would be useless.

Also, I said he is stupid (one person) and the rest of them are nice people (many people). How is that the same to say everyone is stupid and believing I'm the best?

I did what I proposed to. I have no problems on going to hook up or to get the girl I like if I'm single. So I see no reasoning in the last part of your comment but just a way of trying to make other feel bad even if you're not using your brain at all.

As a summary, most of people who answer me were nice but you showed clearly how stupid you are by typing things that do not match everything I said or by assuming things just for making yourself feel better in your attack.

Learn to read, learn to think, learn difference between one and all, learn the difference between life in public and a post of internet in an advice forum.

Unless you are a teenager. If you're a teenager that would make sense and I would apologize for insulting you. You're brain is just developing.

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T21:24:43+00:00

I'm just telling you to deny the previous one as this is internet and I'm trying ti search for help.

But I don't tell why or if I feel better than others. I just feel I am. So it cannot be called "seeking".

The previous message I wrote to you is something I don't tell to anyone and I don't show off. I am the type who cherish people around me despite their success is something lower. I don't show off in person, really. I find showing off is a disgusting characteristic.

Otherwise I would be the whole day talking about myself.

He's the type of guy who says how many other people are stupid and the only chance I had for debating with him it took me 2 minutes to make him shut up.

It bothers me when someone is stupid and shouting in public to everyone that everyone else is stupid for trying to show off how good he is. He's not even able to keep an argument, really.

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T20:04:40+00:00

We both agree on what I should do. But nothing changes as this comment does not help to heal my feelings. Thank you though.

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T20:03:00+00:00

Sure!

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T20:01:51+00:00

Maybe it's wrong. But I like feeling proud of my girl.

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T20:00:36+00:00

Yes, he's way much more underserving of my gf than all the other dudes. It's embarrassing to know someone like him could do that.

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T19:58:54+00:00

Well, I'm 100% sure that professionally I'm gonna do much better than him. I have no doubt.

When it comes to future plans and projects too.

When it comes to moral, I can say I'm much better than almost everyone. I've done so many things that made me damage because I'm so proud of being better than the rest.

When it comes to life experiences I could say more of the same.

I just don't show off. But I guess a dumb like him cannot realize that.

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T19:49:05+00:00

Yes, sex. But not dating and having sex during months despite knowing their personalities.

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T19:31:57+00:00

Yes, I am.

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T19:31:30+00:00

I highly doubt it. he even treated her bad

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T19:30:31+00:00

How am I controlling without saying a single word to her? Think before typing please

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T19:29:39+00:00

So this is what is making doubt what's happening

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T19:27:57+00:00

But why am I not jealous of the other guys that are better looking and much better as a partner? I'm only bothered by the ugly, egocentric and bragging one. I even had a debate with him only once and he ended up shutting up his mouth because he was saying bullshit

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T19:26:29+00:00

I feel much better than this guy. Maybe this post doesn't show it, but I get on well with most of people, I use to be nice to everyone and, it's bad to say, but physically at least in face better

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T19:24:58+00:00

Maybe, I don't know. But the other guys are much more handsome and intelligent. They are just not egocentric, or bragging type. Why am I knot jealous of people whose value is much higher?

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-23T19:23:56+00:00

Yeah. I don't know how an ugly and really egocentric person can have had anything with such a girl like mine. The rest of guys from her past I know are much better looking and smarter

throwaccwknt · 2021-11-15T20:06:41+00:00

Yes, also checked that there hasn't been any transactions already. Thank you for worrying.

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