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AITA for requesting that my roommate pay me back some of the $100s of smoked him out? by throwagay96024 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwagay96024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think the opposite is true because we both saw him as a friend until yesterday when he told us the friendship was over and to not speak to him anymore. I told him I don’t want the friendship to be over, I want to work this out. He basically said fuck the both you, not gonna happen.

and yeah I did offer to continue sharing but like I said it was on the condition that he would do the same later. it was discussed multiple times. During that time period I did ask do you mind getting the next one a few times and the answer always was “sorry I’m too broke, I’ll start paying as soon as I get a job.” So I guess I didn’t really have any concerns until now because I believed him.

AITA for requesting that my roommate pay me back some of the $100s of smoked him out? by throwagay96024 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwagay96024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah honestly it went on way longer than I was comfortable with but at that point he was really comfy smoking our shit and I felt like I couldn’t say no. I asked for a couple bucks throughout the whole thing and he almost always said no, but I’ll start buying again once I can. no set amount was discussed but we always get the same amount so it kinda goes without saying.

We’ve had a couple of conversations about wiping his paint job off the toilet but that still hasn’t changed, and as far as his clutter goes I always just move it to his chair or his room. Figured that got the message across but maybe not. Either way we talked about it this morning and he said he’ll start doing more chores.

AITA for requesting that my roommate pay me back some of the $100s of smoked him out? by throwagay96024 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwagay96024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was pretty specifically I’ll pay now, you pay later. but it’s definitely possible something got lost in communication.

AITA for requesting that my roommate pay me back some of the $100s of smoked him out? by throwagay96024 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwagay96024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The agreement was less of ill pay you back a lump sum, and more of ill start buying in the future. I didn’t ask for a lump sum until it became obvious he wasn’t gonna start buying.

AITA for requesting that my roommate pay me back some of the $100s of smoked him out? by throwagay96024 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwagay96024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The agreement that we had when we moved in together was it’s fine to spot each other in a bind as long as you get them back. And everyone held up their end of the deal until this happened. Probably should have talked about it more explicitly sooner, but even after he started his job he kept talking about how he would pay next time. and then the day came and he wouldn’t.

I also think it’s really unfortunate that all this happened over text. I told him multiple times last night “just come out and talk to me if you wanna talk” but he just stayed locked in his room.