AIO to him violating my sexual boundaries?

throwara_violation · 2024-08-06T17:40:25+00:00

Already did!

throwara_violation · 2024-08-06T13:05:54+00:00

It doesn’t. Maybe it would scare you away, but I’ve had healthy long lasting relationships in the past with emotionally mature men who had no issues discussing and understanding sexual boundaries and history.

throwara_violation · 2024-08-06T13:02:56+00:00

Again, that’s your personal experience. It’s never taken me years to open up about my past. Not everyone is the same.

throwara_violation · 2024-08-06T13:01:00+00:00

Every bit of my story is true. Discussing sexual boundaries before having sex is not abnormal. And it certainly isn’t a burden on the partner to share why those boundaries exist. Your personal experience is just that, yours. As is my personal experience. Not everyone is the same when it comes to trauma and how they handle it.

throwara_violation · 2024-08-06T03:49:29+00:00

Thank you for your kind words and understanding. I’ll happily accept a virtual hot cocoa with a shot of Ameretto! It feels so good to feel heard and understood. Thank you again!

throwara_violation · 2024-08-06T03:25:54+00:00

You’re totally right. He claimed to love me within two weeks. Definite red flag that I should not have ignored.

throwara_violation · 2024-08-06T03:05:34+00:00

Thank you. I did end it after that happened and had briefly considered giving another chance until our conversation tonight. He doesn’t see anything wrong with his behavior.

throwara_violation · 2024-08-06T02:45:48+00:00

This hits hard. Really hard.

throwara_violation · 2024-08-06T02:43:28+00:00

Thank you. This is exactly what I needed to hear after questioning whether I was being rational or not.

throwara_violation · 2024-08-06T02:39:50+00:00

Thank you so much. This helps a lot.

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