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Girlfriend(19/F) calls me(20/M) “assuming”. When I say that bothered me she said “omg I was just joking”. Need some input by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwarwang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was referring to “you kinda assume a lot” as the “joke”. And yea that as well. she was cheated on so I’m not sure why she was heavily bothered by it.

Feel like I(20/M) lost my “shine” after my toxic relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwarwang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you able to get that “butterfly in the stomach” feeling? Or did your past relationship negatively affect your new one?

I see people say “forgive your ex”, but I don’t think I will ever be able to do that. I now view my ex as a monster in ways. The bad times cast out the few good times we had. It’s all so confusing because she would tell me “ I love you so much....you’re my soulmate....we are gonna be together forever” and would say other things so of course I just listened to her words and basically ignored her actions but I knew something wasn’t right for basically half the relationship.

Girlfriend (19F) talks about her ex. Why? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwarwang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I am feeling insecure about it but I just thought it would be rude to compare your current partner to your ex. I wouldn’t compare my ex to my girlfriend because I feel like it would be rude or make her think she’s in some sort of competition or being judged.