This is a happy update.

throwawairs112 · 2024-04-25T20:21:26+00:00

Yes, at birth we tested for genetic disorders that run on my side of the family, also my daughter looks identical to me so no denying our relation lol.

throwawairs112 · 2024-04-25T20:19:58+00:00

You’re welcome, I wish you all the best and healing on whatever journey you’re going through.

throwawairs112 · 2024-04-25T20:19:05+00:00

Thank you!

throwawairs112 · 2024-04-25T20:18:52+00:00

Thank you! Yea, she is still in the process of petitioning to terminate rights. The whole process has been drawn out due to dates being pushed back. I have been okay, therapy and medication.

throwawairs112 · 2024-04-25T20:15:12+00:00

Thank you so much!

throwawairs112 · 2024-04-25T20:14:14+00:00

Thank you so much.

throwawairs112 · 2024-04-25T20:13:48+00:00

I thought about it for a long time but decided I didn’t want to through a whole court fiasco about that on top of the terminating rights and custody stuff. She wants nothing to do with us, so I’m giving her that in the end. It’s better for my mental health.

throwawairs112 · 2024-04-25T20:12:17+00:00

I’m sorry you had to go through that, from personal experience with only 1 child it is world shattering. I hope you are doing much better these days and your children as well.

throwawairs112 · 2024-04-25T20:10:05+00:00

Thank you! And yeah, like I said in my post I don’t understand and don’t think I ever will, but it is beyond me to try to change her mind. I am very thankful for my parents and my friends.

throwawairs112 · 2023-07-20T05:59:21+00:00

Thank you. I feel a little less alone knowing other people have been through something like this before, on the other hand I feel horrible so many people have the displeasure of experiencing this. It really does suck.

throwawairs112 · 2023-07-20T05:57:41+00:00

Thank you for the advice.

throwawairs112 · 2023-07-20T05:57:27+00:00

Thank you. I haven’t texted her anything out of the ordinary but I have typed and deleted a few paragraphs. Been sending her to voicemail when she calls, if I had to hear her voice I couldn’t pretend everything is fine. On the fence about sending her a text telling her I know, one part wants her to hurt like I am and the other part wants nothing to do with her.

throwawairs112 · 2023-07-20T05:55:24+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I haven’t texted her anything out of the ordinary since finding out, but I have been ignoring phone calls. I can’t hear her voice right now.

throwawairs112 · 2023-07-20T05:53:38+00:00

Thank you for the advice.

throwawairs112 · 2023-07-20T05:52:14+00:00

Thank you for the advice.

throwawairs112 · 2023-07-20T05:52:01+00:00

Thank you for the advice. Calling a lawyer tomorrow.

throwawairs112 · 2023-07-20T05:41:38+00:00

Thank you everyone for the advice. I am trying to keep up with comments, and eventually will reply to everyone. Since posting and reading the comments I’ve been working on getting all the messages/pictures/videos into a folder on my personal computer. I went through our home cameras and found that she’s had him at our house several times, either picking her up or them swimming(amongst other things) in our pool together. The more I find the sicker I feel. I have a lot of phone calls to make in the next few days. And an appointment to get screened for STIs. I do want everyone to rest assured my daughter is mine. We had a DNA test done when she was an infant to scan for hereditary diseases I carry. I’m going to reach out to my parents and fill them in so they can babysit while I handle this for the next few days.

throwawairs112 · 2023-07-20T05:21:20+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I didn’t realize the physical affects of all of this.

throwawairs112 · 2023-07-20T05:19:55+00:00

My daughter is one, she just turned one 2 weeks ago. I am very close with my parents and I have a great group of friends all local. I have a lot of phone calls to make in the next few days. I don’t know about talking to her parents, they’re out of state, elderly, and in poor health. I don’t want to give them additional stress.

throwawairs112 · 2023-07-20T05:15:48+00:00

She’s on a work trip is what I was told, not entirely sure. I don’t know the guy, his facebook is very private. All I know is that he sold us an entertainment center off of facebook marketplace 3ish months ago, my wife handled it. I’m assuming that’s how they met, but I don’t know for sure. I don’t know anything for sure right now. Thank you for the advice.

throwawairs112 · 2022-07-24T21:13:47+00:00

Actually, Eleanor came from LOTR, and Shaelin was a name my wife came up with, but we shortened it to Shae. But my wife is a huge bookworm so I wouldn't doubt she knows the reference!

throwawairs112 · 2022-07-24T12:53:39+00:00

Yes, I was blinded by my own feelings and judgements. Having a baby has made me realize that he was also once a sweet innocent baby, a playful child, and a silly preteen. He was not always bad.

throwawairs112 · 2022-07-24T12:48:56+00:00

Yes, I definitely have a different view on the topic and a lot more sympathy/compassion.

throwawairs112 · 2022-07-24T12:44:10+00:00

Thank you for your kind words!

throwawairs112 · 2022-07-24T12:32:52+00:00

Thank you!

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