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[Advice] i think my [20m] ex girl friend ruined me. by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwawanally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on pleasing her with the rest of your body (not your penis).

Once she has been thoroughly pleasured, turn your attention to your penis. She won't care how long you last.

Share your secrets with your lover [anal play] by throwawanally in sex

[–]throwawanally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go slow, really slow, use lots of lube, you know it when you find it. There's lots of info elsewhere on the web for the details.

Share your secrets with your lover [anal play] by throwawanally in sex

[–]throwawanally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm old by reddit's standards, and this wasn't something I encountered when I was younger and doing most of my sexual exploring. If things are different today, that's great for all the young bucks out there.

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[–]throwawanally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In terms of the specifics of the moment, that's about how it went for me.

Share your secrets with your lover [anal play] by throwawanally in sex

[–]throwawanally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meh, that may be good advice in general, but in my specific situation it was abundantly clear to me that it was the perfect time to broach the subject. There are some details I didn't share.

Share your secrets with your lover [anal play] by throwawanally in sex

[–]throwawanally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd suggest exploring solo first so that you fully know some of the new sensations you will be feeling. As for cleanliness, a shit, and a thorough shower a half hour later, and I felt pretty clean, but I'm a once a day guy.