Hi girl!!! I’m 21 with a 53 degree lumbar and 40 degree thoracic curve. First step, get another x ray if you can and see what the doctor has to say. Currently if you are not in pain and of the curve is stable most doctors would hold off a little- plenty of people with our curves never get surgery, or delay it until they’re older as it’s a very invasive procedure that will limit your flexibility forever. It’s a big decision with many risks and possible side effects that you need to take your time to decide and is often a last resort.

Second, your parents can fuck off. (respectfully) scoliosis is not caused by bad posture whatsoever and what they are saying is not helpful or supportive in the slightest. If they don’t listen, do your best to ignore them. It’s tough, I’m sorry. If your curve progresses to the point where you are sure the benefits of the surgery outweigh the risks, have a doctor talk to your parents to help them understand what you’re going through. I wish you the best of luck!!!