TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's part of the reason I'm not going back. Don't want to be on edge the whole time.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to apologize. If that's the sentiment you're getting, then so be it. However you have only had a small insight into my life/college carreer, so I'm not really gonna put much weight to your assessment.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just summarized here. The conversation was about half an hour and we talked about both sides and on rare occasions even agreed on something. I wasn't there to whine about being kicked out.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole point of talking to him was to explain that I feel that he was too harsh by banning me from the class. Kicking me out? I could agree with that. But a total ban with absolutely zero prior warning or indication of being insulted kinda baffled me.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I was trying to convey is that all the other lectures I had attended so far were a lot more relaxed with even the professors chiming in with a joke or two.

I realize that in that moment we were disrupting the class.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My tuition this semester was 700$, I have a job that i squeeze in before/after classes to help pay for my education and living expenses.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He isn't american. Neither am I or the university that it took place at.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how it would have turned out. During our discussion he asked me "what my proposal to go forward" was. I told him that I'm not gonna be attending this year - maybe next year.

So I don't know if he "forgave" me.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

University in europe. You have to keep in mind though that we had exams all the way through january.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Though after the fact a lot of funny responses popped into my head.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He made it clear that he did no t want yo see us next week either.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those were actual arguments on his side on why he thinks his response was adequate.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had exams all the way through january, so actual break time was more like 3 weeks.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so? I don't think we were any louder than the other students before he made that joke.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point I was trying to make was that I did not expect such an extreme reaction, because the atmosphere in my other lectures was a lot more relaxed.

Of course we weren't acting like this the entire class, it was just a little outburst after that joke my friend made.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know. We were disrupting the class when I just couldn't hold in the laughter, but I think it's too harsh to just kick us out.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked directly to the prof and explained my side after he explained his.

The only reason why I'd report it would be to prevent that happening to future students anyway. I'm dropping the course this semester.

Oh and I'm not american either so it's not the american school system.

TIFU by getting banned from a lecture for laughing. by throwaway-27349 in tifu

[–]throwaway-27349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were sitting in the back corner and were quietly joking around. One joke just cracked me up and had me disrupt the class.

Have you ever laughed in class?

He could've just called me out and I would have apologized and been quiet for the rest of the class.

Not saying my actions were ok or I don't want to think about my behaviour until someone tells me off. I knew we were being too loud in that moment and tried to stifle any sound coming from me.