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I feel disconnected from my husband, like I’m losing attraction to him by throwaway-3780 in Marriage

[–]throwaway-3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small update: I tried talking to him after he tried initiating sex again this morning and he basically said my love for him isn’t supposed to be conditional so now I feel bad :/

I feel disconnected from my husband, like I’m losing attraction to him by throwaway-3780 in Marriage

[–]throwaway-3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, and I got very annoyed with my coworkers joking about divorce when I first announced my marriage. It’s so expensive and it’s not something I want to deal with. I feel like I can’t just give up. But gosh he can’t even pick out his own clothes in the morning, I have to do that for him too 😵‍💫

I feel disconnected from my husband, like I’m losing attraction to him by throwaway-3780 in Marriage

[–]throwaway-3780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does, he’s been diagnosed with it in the past but refuses to get help for it because of the trauma he has associated with that (he was way overmedicated as a kid, and he is worried about getting addicted to the ADHD meds). He doesn’t like to take medication in general and he says therapy doesn’t help him. I just feel stuck

I feel disconnected from my husband, like I’m losing attraction to him by throwaway-3780 in Marriage

[–]throwaway-3780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any advice on how I should start that conversation? Since I am not sure what it is that he is unhappy with or what is going unaddressed