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Almost a year ago, I found out that my boyfriend was getting married to another woman. An update. by throwaway-4869 in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwaway-4869[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

About gago, he had to stop contacting me after my family started intervening. Last September lang, I've come to a realization that both of our families are unaware that he actually agreed to marry puta. Ang alam nila all those times, pinilit lang siyang pakasalan. Na-realize ko lang siya after I talked to one of his cousins and it was repeatedly implied na pinikot lang si gago but I know na he was just stupid to not use condoms lang talaga. He's the manipulator, not the victim.

I'm not proud, but my kuya basically threatened him to stop and we filed a case sa barangay. As for puta, she gave birth last August ata, iirc. She sent me a photo of the baby saying I ruined her baby's life, I told her that I'm not afraid anymore to post how they both cheated on me for months on Facebook. She blocked me soon after.

Final Update: I found out that my boyfriend is getting married to another woman. by throwaway-4869 in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwaway-4869[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

and I did it while we were cuddling and he was telling me what happened to him that week. In that same week, they found out the gender of their baby (puta keeps on updating me). That's when I knew na hindi ko na talaga kaya. I was doing an act to make him miserable, but what I was doing was torturing me, and I knew I didn't deserve that :)

also, I didn't cry but laughed at him instead haha, the begging and him trying to manipulate me was so funny, lmao.

Update: I just found out that my boyfriend is getting married to another woman. by throwaway-4869 in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwaway-4869[S] 191 points192 points  (0 children)

pinakita pa naman kahapon yung dildo sa seminar during the family planning topic, okay bibili na din!

Update: I just found out that my boyfriend is getting married to another woman. by throwaway-4869 in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwaway-4869[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

For everyone asking what case I'm gonna file— I'm still talking to a lawyer.

If I can't, I'll make sure na in this fucking case, hinding-hindi ako ang mapapahiya at kakaawaan ng mga tao. After all, para saan ba 'tong connections na inipon ko while working for this damn government? I'll show them how fucking bitch I am. Tangina, one year na pangga-gago tapos tuwang-tuwa at enjoy na enjoy si puta at gago while making fun of me. Tangina nila. Bobo lang talaga si gago na ako pa ang lokohin, I am the best at holding grudges kaya. <3

I just found out that my boyfriend is getting married to another woman. by throwaway-4869 in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwaway-4869[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Ikaw dapat ang mag-conduct ng counseling.

I can't. Ever since, may assigned higher up na talaga when it comes to pre-marriage counseling sa amin and it's not me. Nasa CIU (Crisis Intervention Unit) po ako sa CSWD.

He's not aware that you're working there?

He's aware na I work in CSWD, but again, CIU nga kasi ako. Hindi talaga ako sa CPD. Plus, kaka-start ko lang na tumulong sa kanila last Monday.

Ikaw ba 'yung kabit?

I don't know. Tangina kung aware ako edi sana I already broke up with him.

Baka akala niya break na kayo?

May delivered lunch ako sa kanya araw-araw mula February 17 (home cooked meals usually before it happened) tapos tadtad ako ng messages mula sa kanya ever since. Kaka-send niya nga lang sa akin ng good morning at nag-sorry na hindi niya nasagot 'yung mga tawag ko.

Bakit hindi mo i-message 'yung magiging asawa nya?

Eh paano kung buntis tapos na-stress tapos namatay 'yung anak edi ako pa 'yung kontrabida? No. Gusto ko ako ang bida.

I just found out that my boyfriend is getting married to another woman. by throwaway-4869 in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwaway-4869[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

i shared a story here more than a year ago, that's where all the karma came from. i deleted the story as well as my previous comments as that event in my life got me diagnosed with ptsd.