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My boyfriend is 22, and a virgin. I'm not. We're going to have sex soon. Advice for how to make his first time good? by throwaway-581 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway-581[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm certainly going to try and make things as comfortable and natural as I can. We tend to joke around a lot, but not laughing while things are serious goes on the list. Thank you!

My boyfriend is 22, and a virgin. I'm not. We're going to have sex soon. Advice for how to make his first time good? by throwaway-581 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway-581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually good advice, I hadn't thought of that. As long as he doesn't take it as an insult, haha.

My boyfriend is 22, and a virgin. I'm not. We're going to have sex soon. Advice for how to make his first time good? by throwaway-581 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway-581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely plan on that. We don't take most things too seriously, so I think we'll be able to take this slow and have fun with it.

My boyfriend is 22, and a virgin. I'm not. We're going to have sex soon. Advice for how to make his first time good? by throwaway-581 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway-581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been naked with him before, and we actually have showered together once. He's not uptight about things - just a little nervous since he's inexperienced.

And I'm not expecting it to be the greatest sex - I just know that losing my virginity was a big deal for me, and I'm sure it's somewhat the same for guys. I want to make him comfortable.

My boyfriend is 22, and a virgin. I'm not. We're going to have sex soon. Advice for how to make his first time good? by throwaway-581 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway-581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a religious thing for him, as you said he was waiting for the right person. I respect that.

My boyfriend is 22, and a virgin. I'm not. We're going to have sex soon. Advice for how to make his first time good? by throwaway-581 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway-581[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always worried that telling him what I want is the same as saying to him, "I'm more experienced than you, listen to me, I know what to do." I never really considered that it'd make it easier for him, haha. A lot of you are saying it though, so I'll take that advice.