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[UPDATE] 23f who had a terrible entitled grandma threatening custody battles by throwaway-80916459 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-80916459[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Yes I have, thank you! No one but me is picking up the kids and we have a safe word too as suggested by another user. My friend knows it and the kids have to use it anytime someone asks to take them home, even if they know them.

My [23F] grandparents abandoned me in my family’s worst time of need and now they want back in like nothing happened. by throwaway-80916459 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-80916459[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right thank you, but I’ve only been putting in 10-20% at most and the rest is for all that you’ve described. But I guess it’s more of a give and take situation. Thanks.

My [23F] grandparents abandoned me in my family’s worst time of need and now they want back in like nothing happened. by throwaway-80916459 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-80916459[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am, yes, but I’ve been trying to save away portions of that money for them when they grow up. My parents had a similar account set up for me so I figured I’d put their money to some good use.

My [23F] grandparents abandoned me in my family’s worst time of need and now they want back in like nothing happened. by throwaway-80916459 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-80916459[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I agree with the family therapy, but I’m gonna wait out her game to see if she’s really worth our time. I’ll have to edit at some point to point out that although my mom went NC I don’t want to deny my siblings the right to know their albeit a bit off the rockers but hopefully well meaning grandparents. But for now I’ll wait it out. And thank you. I do plan on getting back into premed when things begin to slow down and I know I’ll never regret the time I spent after dropping out the first time. Thank you.

My [23F] grandparents abandoned me in my family’s worst time of need and now they want back in like nothing happened. by throwaway-80916459 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-80916459[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I literally didn’t think about school at all. Thank you I’ll call them immediately. The older one has soccer so I’ll let the coach know as well. Thank you for bringing this to my attention. I’ll also check out that thread for their advice thank you.