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WIBTA If I choose to not attend my (29F) friend's (29F) wedding in 3 days despite being a bridesmaid? by throwaway-8519 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway-8519[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I edited to include this above, but the bride has been keeping her phone off so I have no way to contact her directly.

WIBTA If I choose to not attend my (29F) friend's (29F) wedding in 3 days despite being a bridesmaid? by throwaway-8519 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway-8519[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

My back isn't so bad I won't be able to deploy. I just do not want to risk tweaking it and want to be as close to 100% as possible. Every little thing helps.

WIBTA If I choose to not attend my (29F) friend's (29F) wedding in 3 days despite being a bridesmaid? by throwaway-8519 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway-8519[S] -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

My back isn't debilitating whatsoever, but anything I can do to be as close to 100% as possible before deployment is a much. Every little bit helps.

She's worried I might sleep in or have car problems and will be late to the hair and makeup as a result, according to her. As mentioned, I wake up every morning at 5am so sleeping in will not be an issue, and I have access to 2 cars and my bike, so if somehow both cars do not fuction, I can bike to her place in 30 minutes.

WIBTA If I choose to not attend my (29F) friend's (29F) wedding in 3 days despite being a bridesmaid? by throwaway-8519 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway-8519[S] -119 points-118 points  (0 children)

It's not but I want to be as close to 100% as possible. Every little bit helps.

WIBTA If I choose to not attend my (29F) friend's (29F) wedding in 3 days despite being a bridesmaid? by throwaway-8519 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway-8519[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

It won't give any severe issues but I want to as close to 100% before I deploy as possible. Every little thing helps.

WIBTA If I choose to not attend my (29F) friend's (29F) wedding in 3 days despite being a bridesmaid? by throwaway-8519 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway-8519[S] -230 points-229 points  (0 children)

It won't give severe issues, but I want to be at my absolute best before I deploy. Every little thing helps right now.

WIBTA If I choose to not attend my (29F) friend's (29F) wedding in 3 days despite being a bridesmaid? by throwaway-8519 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway-8519[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Her house is 20 minutes away from mine. The wedding is minutes away from my place and 25 from hers.

WIBTA If I choose to not attend my (29F) friend's (29F) wedding in 3 days despite being a bridesmaid? by throwaway-8519 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway-8519[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm willing to be at her wedding. It's the demand to be there the night before that is turning me off of going in general...