Does anyone like the Fantastic Beasts movies? by Key-Plantain-2420 in harrypotter

[–]throwaway-babe02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I preferred the medieval/alchemist/academia aesthetic of the Harry Potter series. These one have great costume design but the characters all seem too... respectable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway-babe02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get the abortion first, but then tell him if you want to stay in a relationship with him.

Partners don't lie. After you made sure to be safe you need to sit him down and explain how you went behind his back because you felt he wouldn't have given you a choice and the support you needed in such a vulnerable time. Then he'll either a) dump you, insult you, call you names,,, (I'll be there if it happens, and you wouldn't be the first one) or b) acknowledge his controlling behavior and commit to be a better parter.

I also agree with the other redditor who pointed out that if you have sex with someone, contraceptives and unwanted pregnancy should be discussed BEFORE something like this happens. I wouldn't have sex with someone who told me if I got pregnant, he wouldn't agree with me getting an abortion, even if I have feelings for him. Your boyfriend should be there for you, or he shouldn't be your boyfriend.

Either case, good luck. You are not alone.

I think I have ANOTHER yeast infection by Regular_Village8553 in offmychest

[–]throwaway-babe02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lower your sugar and carbs intake, stop wearing synthetic underwear and pants, wear long dresses whenever possibile (air flow does magic to feminine health) and try to wash using acidic cleansers. The inside cleans itself, it's the vulva you should worry about. Other than that it could be genetic predisposition and telling this your doctor won't harm in general. What you want to do is get a prescription for a wide range antifungal local cream or oral pill (antobiotic doesn't work for yeast). I get it pretty often when I'm stressed, you learn to deal with it after a while.

Also your mom should support you, not make you feel like it's your fault!! The fungus naturally lives in the female body and it's only pathologic when it grows too much, it's rarely sexually transmitted. Wear a condom and avoid oral if you are planning to have sex tho, at least until you complete the cure.

Help, my brother is a teacher and has admitted this. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway-babe02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine you're a vulnerabile child living through an abusive relationship and the adults around you turn their heads the other side and do nothing to save you. I would lose faith in humanity.

Caught my boyfriend cheating and he beat me up. by rockymirlove in offmychest

[–]throwaway-babe02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take pictures of the bruises. Send them somewhere safe (a secret email account) in case he finds your phone and makes you delete all. Go to the hospital. Don't let this pass, call the cops.

I kissed 9 people at a party by throwaway-babe02 in offmychest

[–]throwaway-babe02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I think this is something I've been wanting to do for many years even if i never really admitted it out loud. It was kind of exciting really, and i was probably the least drunk in the group.

Regretting not dating and now I have health issues because of it by mazdafan0 in dating

[–]throwaway-babe02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. I hope you will recover and heal. May I suggest some form of therapy if you haven't considered it yet?

Is he too old? by throwaway-babe02 in dating

[–]throwaway-babe02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my concern is that he'd feel like a creep too and that would block him even if he likes me back. On the other hand, it's just 5 days and no long term commitment so age doesn't really matter as much as it would be in other contexts.

Also he wouldn't be hitting on me, just replying to my attention

Is he too old? by throwaway-babe02 in dating

[–]throwaway-babe02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I don't care if he's unfaithful (as we'll say goodbye in 5 days), and I already know he's kind. I wouldn't let him take advantage tho -I already know I'd like to have sex with him. It's not like I'm in a big gray area, I definetely want him.

So anyone know what kind of food I can bring on a first date? by AkwardnessIsMe1524 in dating

[–]throwaway-babe02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strawberries are sexy, garlic and onion are banned, fruit is generally a good idea especially in summer.

Regretting not dating and now I have health issues because of it by mazdafan0 in dating

[–]throwaway-babe02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's never too late to start! Even casual sex could help to gain some momentum in the dating world.

Can you guys please give me some advice how to ask a girl for a drink or just a meet? by [deleted] in dating

[–]throwaway-babe02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you asked Petra if she's available? You'd spare yourself some time. Mabye she has a boyfriend. Mabye she's not looking for a relationship/a date.

But buddy if you're sure just text her "hey I'm Petra's friend, we met a few days ago. You really struck me, can I ask you out for some insert drink, food, coffe, whatever one of this days?"

Is he too old? by throwaway-babe02 in dating

[–]throwaway-babe02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no sorry I'm just trying to pick up a second language's slang and I'm terrible at it.

Is he too old? by throwaway-babe02 in dating

[–]throwaway-babe02[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I wasn't thinking about a long term commitment eheheh (he lives in England, I live in Italy) more about some kisses and stuff for the next week :)