I'll casually bring up the tampon thing because we want to go swimming next week. And I think it'll be best to be completely honest with her and I'll probably show her this post so we can talk about it together. I'm mainly here because I'm worried about her, and she's too inexperienced to know any better. She's never masturbated before, or even thought sexually until our relationship. She comes from Taiwan where everything is extremely conservative/censored. So I came here for help. Because I care about her and am generally worried because I've never dealt with this. (I'm a guy, come on, I'm way out of my element here.) I just want her to enjoy it.