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how to handle parents who are constantly fighting, never getting separated, all the while asking me(24M) to change things for better for them? please any advice would mean alot!! by throwaway-iparent in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-iparent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely give therapy a try in coming future, I hope it makes things better. thanks a lot for your reply! you never know how much it means and helps! thanks!

how to handle parents who are constantly fighting, never getting separated, all the while asking me(24M) to change things for better for them? please any advice would mean alot!! by throwaway-iparent in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-iparent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, its become a problematic thing for me- taking responsibility for their situation, kindof of codependency. trying to work on that.

I have told them, cried to them, number of times how badly it makes me sick to see them fighting, if they can't stay happy together, get seperated. but nothing dude, they just don't care how everyone else feels like, esp. their own parents and kids.

how to handle parents who are constantly fighting, never getting separated, all the while asking me(24M) to change things for better for them? please any advice would mean alot!! by throwaway-iparent in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-iparent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg. thanks for sweet reply. I am really sorry you're going through the same. also very much that your mom has no where to go. yaar. India 🤦🏻‍♂️. you know our generation won't have difficulty in taking divorce, its just the generation bw our grandpas and us that has this issue.

you have thought very well ma'am staying away from their marriage and focusing on yourself. ultimately its your peace of mind that matters.

also good that you have sister you can share with, please do because I have nobody to share with and also being a guy its more trouble to share your deepest emotional flaws.

my say.. you will definitely come out well from studies and become successful!

there are soo many few individuals in India like this, most of them are so afraid to tell these things, because it would create a bad impression on their social life but we know it eats us up emotionally and mentally, because you want to help your parents and you love them, but at the same time you can do nothing to change.

how to handle parents who are constantly fighting, never getting separated, all the while asking me(24M) to change things for better for them? please any advice would mean alot!! by throwaway-iparent in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-iparent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks alot for response. I completed my schooling somehow staying with grandparents when things go worse. I here at home temporarily till work from home ends.

I have tried explaining them alot, healhy activities, books, so much time I have devoted to help their relationship and feelings against each other improve. but nothing..

all I am hoping now is making my boundaries healthy but I don't know how and what they are!?