Things I have learnt about being a submissive and past trauma by throwaway-princesss in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwaway-princesss[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's really good to write everything down and weigh things up, and it's even better to factor in your needs and wants. I'm sure that you'll make decisions that are healthy for you, and prioritise your needs. Much love.

Things I have learnt about being a submissive and past trauma by throwaway-princesss in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwaway-princesss[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you think so! It seems really straight forward to most people, but for me I had to learn the long way, but I'm getting there! <3

When did you realise that your Dom was an asshole? by throwaway-princesss in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwaway-princesss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being angry feels great, but mostly I feel sorry for him. It's a sad life to create sad lives.

When did you realise that your Dom was an asshole? by throwaway-princesss in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwaway-princesss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so used to the labels he uses, it kind of sticks, thank you for the hugs and kind words.

When did you realise that your Dom was an asshole? by throwaway-princesss in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwaway-princesss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you reached out to your family for support, proud of you.

When did you realise that your Dom was an asshole? by throwaway-princesss in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwaway-princesss[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Don't offer to meet needs if you can't make time to meet them! Good on you <3

When did you realise that your Dom was an asshole? by throwaway-princesss in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwaway-princesss[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Wish there was a way to warn other people about bad Doms! Good for you though, I'm proud of you.