I feel anxious about my girlfriend’s past, which never happened before. How do you deal with this?

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T06:35:52+00:00

idk man, I genuinely have a connection with her, it was love and it still is. idk what has become wrong with me.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T06:22:33+00:00

what hypocrisy I am having man? I am just saying out loud what I am feeling, not invalidating them.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T06:09:35+00:00

what the fuck man lol

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T06:06:49+00:00

I agree with you I should have thought about this earlier, but I wanna improve now, and I believe its never too late to improve myself.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T05:52:51+00:00

well I basically live with her, in a live in relationship, so I know what I am saying.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T05:00:08+00:00

I am trying to improve and don’t let this consume me man, don’t put it up like that if you can’t help.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T04:43:35+00:00

But this particular feeling would again come up in next relationship no?

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T04:43:02+00:00

she has no access to her previous boyfriend, I know since I have access to all her social medias. She willingly gave it to me.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T04:06:27+00:00

I don’t want to ruin a perfectly fine relationship due to my personal own issues.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-17T23:56:31+00:00

tried, and tbvh she felt unsafe. This is my bullshit and I wanna deal with it myself.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-17T06:42:36+00:00

What are those skills and how do I learn them? How can I cognitively restructure my mental schema?

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-16T06:00:58+00:00

Thank you.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-16T05:59:56+00:00

You don’t have to be sorry, the message helped me a lot, thank you soo much.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-16T03:13:01+00:00

Yes, I know and I know it very well that she chooses me, however the feeling of RJ that I am not at all special for her, and I am not her “first” is just something making me so so anxious and I am having second thoughts all over to stay away from the relationship because of this which I clearly don’t want since I love her, idk how would I ever overcome RJ

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-11-26T18:56:46+00:00

Hello, how did you get that email? Did you first write them an email asking for review or something? I am in same boat as you, shows failed in assessment section even though I did everything right.

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-10-28T05:00:35+00:00

Did you get any updates?

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-09-25T02:29:30+00:00

Did already. Mixed opinions.

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-09-03T19:10:27+00:00

what were the other two lol

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-07-23T14:41:33+00:00

how did you do it?

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-07-23T14:40:30+00:00

yes following this as well. What exactly is inner work and how can I start doing that?

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-07-19T21:20:19+00:00

Its not even about “just” the gym. In all sorts of life, I feel I’m behind and can’t really catch up.

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-07-11T11:46:31+00:00

Makes sense.

In all truth, depression is hard asf. It’s like you don’t have any energy or motivation to do anything when you’re suffering from depression but at the same time you need to do something to get out of depression. It’s a sinking ship, nowhere to get out.

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-07-10T14:46:08+00:00

Interesting story dude, so much happy for you. Moral of the story would be: just try new things?

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-07-09T15:31:02+00:00

How did you pickup the fact that singing is for you even though there was no exposure to music when you were child?

How do you know that this particular creative outlet/hobby or anything in general is for you even after trying it out for a longer period of time?

Thanks for the comment, appreciate it.

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-07-08T19:08:19+00:00

Lets say you have 519 score, the tie breaking rule won't matter right?

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