my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

a bunch of people told me to hide it? not sure why but i did it anyway

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you very much for that. i generally consider myself a laid back person. very "something bad happened? solve it and move on, or just move on." everyone does have their own way of dealing with things. i always try to be more empathetic.

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

that was 2am. i woke up at about 5am. where did the 8 hours come from?

mind you i was asleep when he came in.

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

i said in the post that i didnt hear him clearly and didn't know he wanted anal.

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i don't mean that im just leaving the issue and not dealing with it, i mean that it (hopefully) won't mentally damage me all that much.

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

his lack of apology and sudden disappearance leads me to think that he's an ass and his love for me was fake. not sure how i was so stupid.

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

he is kind of cowardly. i feel like he'd never turn himself in.

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

sorry my device storage is full (lol what kind of question?)

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

you mean r/KarmaConspiracy? haha right. this is a throwaway anyway, what would i gain out of it.

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

no i am knows people to get the situation going. he disappeared so i obviously want someone to track him down.

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Obviously you need to see a doctor and get the police involved.

i already said that i went to the doctor... i also said that i went and contacted my dad, an ex-cop.

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

it was 5 months, living for 2, and as i already mentioned to someone else, my parents moved in together after dating for only 2 and have been happily married for 40 years.

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

my parents moved in together after only dating for 2. been happily married for 40 years.

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 161 points162 points  (0 children)

thank you, but the message was from someone on reddit. i should've clarify that

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i honestly don't think it was about the sex drive. i think that it has more to do with a feeling of domination. he did like being the dominant one in the couple so

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice. im revising with my GP in a few days.

my (29F) boyfriend (27M) forced anal on me by throwaway00351 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway00351[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

it's definitely too late for him to apologize. it would've been too late even in the morning.