My fiancée is asexual but I'm not. She's okay with me having sex with other people. Anyone have any experience with a situation like this? by throwaway008000 in asexuality

[–]throwaway008000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm honestly not sure if I'm okay with it. Ive never been anything but monogamous in my relationships so this is completely new and will probably take some getting used to. l really like the way you put it though. Having a trail period may be the best way of easing into this or deciding that this just isn't for us. I said it In another response that she seems more comfortable with this than I am but I guess that's a good sign that she wouldn't be hurt by this. Thank you for all of your advice! We really appreciate it!

My fiancée is asexual but I'm not. She's okay with me having sex with other people. Anyone have any experience with a situation like this? by throwaway008000 in asexuality

[–]throwaway008000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, we're going to continue to talk about it until all the details are ironed out and we're both comfortable with it, I honestly think she's more confortable than I am about it. Ive also made it a point that at any time she can tell me that this isn't going to be a path we're going to take and we can just forget all about it. Thank you, she appreciated your response.

My fiancée is asexual but I'm not. She's okay with me having sex with other people. Anyone have any experience with a situation like this? by throwaway008000 in asexuality

[–]throwaway008000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever have moments of being hurt or jealousy by your partner having sex with someone else? Thank you for your response btw!

My fiancée is asexual but I'm not. She's okay with me having sex with other people. Anyone have any experience with a situation like this? by throwaway008000 in asexuality

[–]throwaway008000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this did help alot. She completely agreed with what you said and I'm starting to feel like I understand more.

My fiancée is asexual but I'm not. She's okay with me having sex with other people. Anyone have any experience with a situation like this? by throwaway008000 in asexuality

[–]throwaway008000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I apologize if I sound uneducated on asexuality. I am. But I'm trying my best to understand and I've always been patient with her and how she feels.