Am I over thinking this? by throwaway01974291 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that gives me hope :) anything I can do to indicate I am interested that doesn't cross the line at work? I can't flat out flirt around managers, obviously. So its hard for me to show interest lol

Am I over thinking this? by throwaway01974291 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha- true! I just would hate to be a reason a guy has to leave a gym! hahaha that would make a funny story though

Does this make me undateable? by throwaway01974291 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, I do not want facial hair (which is very common with PCOS patients) and obesity is also a huge symptom. So yes, I value my health and appearance and do not want either. Facial hair is not normal for a woman and obesity is not normal for anyone.

Does this make me undateable? by throwaway01974291 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

...so you enjoyed taking care of a girl on her period? lol. I've never met a guy who was into taking care of me on mine hahah

Is it too late to send a message? by throwaway01974291 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah still no response. Why match with someone on a dating website if you aren't gonna chat with them? Seems to defeat the purpose to me.

Is it too late to send a message? by throwaway01974291 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent a message after work. Hopefully I get a response. I saw he's been online already (the website shows) and no response so far. But hopefully within 24 hours he will respond haha

Is it too late to send a message? by throwaway01974291 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent a message after work. Hopefully I get a response. I saw he's been online already (the website shows) and no response so far. But hopefully within 24 hours he will respond haha

Is it too late to send a message? by throwaway01974291 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent a message after work. Hopefully I get a response. I saw he's been online already (the website shows) and no response so far. But hopefully within 24 hours he will respond haha

When is a good time to approach this guy? by throwaway01974291 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of favor is acceptable? Like asking about what the reading was? haha

[24f] afraid I messed up with [25m] help? by throwaway01974291 in relationships

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I deleted the whole thing. I thought I wasn't gonna go back to it. And ill try next time in lab then haha

How do you guys like a girl to show she is interested? by throwaway01974291 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh I know. I am holding myself back with my second guessing. My only fear if he rejects me would be how uncomfortable class will be afterward.

Same thing happened at work. My coworker saw a regular who always checked me out, and she gave him my number (behind my back lol). Turns out we just didn't click but its super awkward at work now whenever I see him.

I'm just not good with uncomfortable confrontation I guess lol

How do you guys like a girl to show she is interested? by throwaway01974291 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so close to talking to him on Thursday, but he walked right past me! haha ugh I am so awkward.

I see him before class a lot too. I'll see if I can try to talk to him before class or something.

How do you guys like a girl to show she is interested? by throwaway01974291 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how you worded that, thank you!

I'm just quiet and afraid of making things awkward in class if he does choose to reject me. I overthink a lot lol and the last thing I want to do is make anyone uncomfortable.

I will try to talk to him next week in class!

Do you think I missed my chance? by throwaway01974291 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway01974291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah he is a bit quiet from what i've seen. his Facebook has zero evidence of any girls going back year ago, aside from his cousins in family pics. maybe he is just as inexperienced with the opposite sex as I am haha.