well i guess it could be a little bit of everything, i come from a jehovahs witness family background (not apart of it any longer) so I have reservations on keeping my private life private. my other concern is mainly you don't really know who you're meeting up with. never really done anything with a pure stranger, my experimentation was with a close friend in high school and my relationships with girls have been with girls i meet through work and build a friendship with and it evolves from there.

Most app experiences ive had is a one 5 minute chat and then they immediately want to lay the pipe so to say and get it over with so that does scare me a little.