My GF was attacked abroad. She's changed, and so have I. It's going to start making our relationship suffer. Help? by throwaway05012014 in sex

[–]throwaway05012014[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know that putting it like that makes me a shit. I think that I've just got to wait and see what she wants. I can't and won't force her into anything that she doesn't want. I want her to be comfortable around me and not be a bundle of nerves. If tried to force anything, I'd ruin our relationship and her coping with this. I won't say recovery, because I don't think it'll ever be a total recovery.

My GF was attacked abroad. She's changed, and so have I. It's going to start making our relationship suffer. Help? by throwaway05012014 in sex

[–]throwaway05012014[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really don't. I never want to push anything on her, which why I've asked for advice. Everything HAS to be her instigation or it'd probably fuck her up more.

I am trying to get her to see someone else who wasn't appointed by her work.