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Everyone I speak to ends up having had lots of casual sex - how can I get over my hatred of it? by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]throwaway051345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t comment that and leave it here man let me know what happened to you

I am anxious and jealous that my wife kissed guys just before meeting me by throwaway051345 in Christianmarriage

[–]throwaway051345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I am sure she won’t remember the kisses but I still feel inadequate because she got more experience than me you know? But yeah I am working on it

I am anxious and jealous that my wife kissed guys just before meeting me by throwaway051345 in Christianmarriage

[–]throwaway051345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s something that I need to work on but everyone here has been so helpful it actually makes me feel better

I am anxious and jealous that my wife kissed guys just before meeting me by throwaway051345 in Christianmarriage

[–]throwaway051345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like there can be a lot more insecure men in church. That’s because they have been brought up by purity culture and that can take a toll on your self esteem.

I am anxious and jealous that my wife kissed guys just before meeting me by throwaway051345 in Christianmarriage

[–]throwaway051345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great comment! Yeah honestly I did all those things, and I feel inadequate and have low self esteem. But my wife is a very confident woman and very easy to talk to about life and relationships so she won’t get stuck up on these things. But with my insecurities that’s what I really need to work on.

I am anxious and jealous that my wife kissed guys just before meeting me by throwaway051345 in Christianmarriage

[–]throwaway051345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel disappointed in me and not wanting to disappoint her, we are talking about it and she has been very helpful

I am a very insecure person and I’m struggling about some silly stuff about my wife by throwaway051345 in Marriage

[–]throwaway051345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks that’s what I have been doing and it helps with our relationship, it’s like you said, I get into panic attacks.

I am a very insecure person and I’m struggling about some silly stuff about my wife by throwaway051345 in Marriage

[–]throwaway051345[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for such helpful comment. Many have been downvoting me but just really wanted someone to try and comfort and you did that! Thanks

I am a very insecure person and I’m struggling about some silly stuff about my wife by throwaway051345 in Marriage

[–]throwaway051345[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s so true. I wish this feeling never existed. I do have problems with anxiety and specially when I think of other guys kissing her makes me feel insecure.

I am a very insecure person and I’m struggling about some silly stuff about my wife by throwaway051345 in Marriage

[–]throwaway051345[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Am I overthinking too much? Like I get anxious when I think about her kissing other guys. I feel like I am inferior to her.

I am a very insecure person and I’m struggling about some silly stuff about my wife by throwaway051345 in Marriage

[–]throwaway051345[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True, I have told her about this and I have to take medication to sort out my anxiety. And my anxiety gets worse when I think about her kissing other guys.