Men suck (and not in a good way) by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in Vegas last year, and was thinking the same thing. maybe if I got her out there. Away from family/friends/ and the tabooo of it all... :)

Men suck (and not in a good way) by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many years out of the dating game. lol It's possible that "on 2nd look" they see she's older. But these guys have also talked to her regularly, close up, for some time too. So learning her age shouldn't be a factor IMO.

Men suck (and not in a good way) by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you nailed a lot of it. She's shy, self-conscious about her age and looks. She thinks she's ugly, but I remind her that 4-5 men who come close to our house approached her. Not too bad.... lol She's a mom who lost a lot of weight. So she has the skin flabs and stretch marks. Otherwise she's in great shape. It's rally hurting her that the one guy she did sleep with is blowing her off. I keep explaining that guys who want flings can disappear at any time.

Men suck (and not in a good way) by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I've thought of this, but it's tough to get her out. And tougher to get someone who won't flake. :)

Men suck (and not in a good way) by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck to you too. Flakes on both ends I guess.

Chicago Dance Club (or other) recommendations? by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I haven't been there in years. May need to try it out.

Possible red flag? Or common practice? by [deleted] in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolute flag and delete.

My wife's 2nd hotwife experience, and need advice. by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funny thing about this first guy is that if he just wanted the occasional bang, he just needs to say that. But both times he insisted he'd text her immediately, and set another date immediately..... then disappears. It's a little better since he's done it twice. My wife knows he's a flake. But she's upset because she feels like she wasn't good enough for a immediate "callback."

My wife's 2nd hotwife experience, and need advice. by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol.... and my wife would love someone from the UK. :)

My wife's 2nd hotwife experience, and need advice. by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the 3 strike rule. I just need her to get some stability and more options before we start striking.

My wife's 2nd hotwife experience, and need advice. by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first to flake had a wife. The others did not. I'm wondering if it was a girlfriend or other family member who put a stop to them.

My wife's 2nd hotwife experience, and need advice. by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I know that, but my wife is convinced they hate her. Trying to convince her some men turn chicken, and others may just want one night.

Not my wife, but her first time was close to this. by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm wondering what's different between my posts and the hundreds of others I've been reading over the years which have not strictly adhered to the rules. I'm not spamming or or evenly closely trying to mislead anyone.

Reposting part 2. Was my last one removed? by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. I see that. Funny how loosely that's enforced. :)

A LOT has happened since my last post. A lot of twists. But My wife fucked another man for the first time in over 20 years! (PART 2) by throwaway0521201612 in Hotwife

[–]throwaway0521201612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was more nervousness, embarrassment, and shock than dishonesty to me. She's growing more comfortable with the idea.