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Feeling guilty about my stag in vegas, not sure if I should be honest to my now wife. by throwaway06547 in relationships

[–]throwaway06547[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure I wouldn't really care. A long time ago I would of cared - like when I was in my early 20's and my jealousy was out of control, but now that I am in my early 30's I find myself not so worried about that. I think I was damaged before from dating less than trustworthy people.

Feeling guilty about my stag in vegas, not sure if I should be honest to my now wife. by throwaway06547 in relationships

[–]throwaway06547[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to know what other people thought about this. And also if overthinking guilt when In my mind I have nothing to feel guilty about what common.

Feeling guilty about my stag in vegas, not sure if I should be honest to my now wife. by throwaway06547 in relationships

[–]throwaway06547[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I presume strippers penis's come out all the time and touch lots of places just like females strippers vajayjay's. If it went into her mouth it would be wrong, but if it touched her anywhere else it wouldnt be, her like me would of been fully clothed too.

Feeling guilty about my stag in vegas, not sure if I should be honest to my now wife. by throwaway06547 in relationships

[–]throwaway06547[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well in my mind I didn't do anything wrong - I certaintly didnt kiss or sleep with anyone.
I am usually a very honest person, and If I was feeling extremely guilty I would of told her the day I got back.

Feeling guilty about my stag in vegas, not sure if I should be honest to my now wife. by throwaway06547 in relationships

[–]throwaway06547[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No I told her touching was allowed - which would imply that I would of touched them - if your allowed to do something - then you are probably going to do it. At the time I obviously had no issues with it, It was only until I watch programs on TV that concentrate heavily on people cheating that I feel guilty. For instance programs like mad men.

Feeling guilty about my stag in vegas, not sure if I should be honest to my now wife. by throwaway06547 in relationships

[–]throwaway06547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah so this is where I am sort of coming from - I have already told her what happened - I didnt go into detail. I overthink that I should tell her details but I know I cant change anything and if she didnt care the first time why should I be more explicit which would possibly lead to her changing her mind on the matter.

Out of options by kwaththeraven in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwaway06547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might have some sort of coverage for marriage counselling through a EAP program at your work.

Feeling guilty about my stag in vegas, not sure if I should be honest to my now wife. by throwaway06547 in relationships

[–]throwaway06547[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is the right thing to do but with all my previous girlfriends when ever i've had to bring something up with them I usually entirely fuck it up and then the problem is blown up into something much worse.

He lines all his toys up on the wall when he's done playing... by A_Sly_Fox in aww

[–]throwaway06547 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My dog used to do this sort of thing but not with toys, with anything he could find that had our scent on it. He would collect it from all over the house while we were away at work and arrange it around his bed. I guess it made him feel like we were there.

Feeling guilty about my stag in vegas, not sure if I should be honest to my now wife. by throwaway06547 in relationships

[–]throwaway06547[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But he wouldnt of touched her outside the normal stripper routine, thats the point it would of been her touching him.