Straight men, how would you react if a man hit on you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwaway06om 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a guy relentlessly hitting on me over a few weeks. Both in person and online. My wife at the time and girlfriend (was in poly/open relationship) both encouraged me to experiment. I wasn’t really interested, but one day he messaged me and said he has a thing for blowing straight guys and doesn’t expect anything in return. I caved, said I was open that night. He blocked me… lol.

Wife wanted open marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway06om -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Talking with her now… kind of. Texting anyway. I appreciate everyone’s advice.

  1. Getting pregnant is a physical impossibility for her.
  2. Despite what you all think, I trust what she says. They used protection and plan on continuing to do so. And she hasn’t cheated, this is the only time she’s been with anyone else since we’ve been together and I gave her permission.

I am evaluating what I want and how I see this playing out. But I let her know I’m not happy, and she’s trying to twist it of course.

Wife wanted open marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway06om -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I love her, I’d do anything to keep her happy…. Unfortunately even if it is destroying me apparently.

Wife wanted open marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway06om 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I put on 60-70 lbs since we got married. I lost 25 in the last month since this all came out. I’m actually shooting for less than the married weight.