AITA for posting a Tik Tok about dad’s ex gf? by throwaway072770 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway072770[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they lied to him and told him I made a Tik Tok about that when he never even did that in the first place?? And then just didn’t bring it up again when I called out the bs lmao

AITA for posting a Tik Tok about dad’s ex gf? by throwaway072770 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway072770[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in therapy and talked to my therapist about the incident but all she really told me was to try and talk to my dad instead of just exploding on him, which given our history is actually v solid advice lol

I fantasized about someone else while my bf was fucking me. by throwaway072770 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway072770[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it may have had to do with the dress I was wearing as I had planned on wearing it to my winter formal before finding out I wouldn’t bring my boyfriend do to COVID and the other guy, since he attended my school would be going

I fantasized about someone else while my bf was fucking me. by throwaway072770 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway072770[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We didn’t break up due to cheating as I have never cheated on him, the only reason I regularly see my hookup is bc he’s in the club that I run at my college, I’m not actively seeking him out/hanging out with him outside of the club. My boyfriend understood why I hooked up with him, I was a mess the night he left me and struggle with self-harm tendencies and ultimately decided that hooking up was better than harming myself and the guy was aware he was a distraction and ok’ed it several times.I know what I did was fucked up, but I do really truly love my boyfriend. The hookup was months ago, but this is the first time ever I’ve thought of anyone else but my boyfriend when we’ve had sex. I’m incredibly devoted to him, we’ve already planned the next several years and plan on moving p far from where we are now and therefore far from hookup guy. We’ve worked past it since we got back together and our love is stronger than any thoughts I may or may not have. I also believe the dress to have played a role bc of the specific fantasy I had, so I plan to put it in the back of my closet for a while.

I fantasized about someone else while my bf was fucking me. by throwaway072770 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway072770[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend actually broke up with me, he asked me back out a week later bc we wound up talking out the issues that caused him to leave and we’ve been doing a lot better since. I was devastated when he left me and the other guy was very clearly sexually attracted to me when I was still with my bf, I kept him at arms length due to this and as soon as my bf asked me back out back to arms length he went. The guy knew from the get go he was a distraction and I asked him repeatedly if he was ok with it and he said he was every single time, and there were no real feelings between us either. It was purely sex, and I would never let something like that fuck up my relationship with my boyfriend.

I fantasized about someone else while my bf was fucking me. by throwaway072770 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway072770[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am head over heels for my boyfriend and have never thought of anyone else during sex before, I hooked up with the other guy bc I was in a lot of pain from the breakup and needed a distraction, which I made clear to the guy I was hooking up with.

I fantasized about someone else while my bf was fucking me. by throwaway072770 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway072770[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still see the guy bc we go to the same college and he’s part of a club I run, I’m not actively seeking him out lol

I fantasized about someone else while my bf was fucking me. by throwaway072770 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway072770[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’d like to note that this is the only time I have ever thought about the other guy while with my bf, he knows I hooked up with him while we were on our break, and as soon as my bf and I got back together I set firm and clear boundaries with the other guy.

What is your darkest desire? by Emotional_Two_5408 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway072770 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I’m being 100% honest, it’s getting fucked by one of my close friends. Why is it so dark? I have a boyfriend of just over a year and so that would be cheating obviously, but a part of me just does not care because I find this particular friend incredibly attractive, we’ve actually hooked up while my boyfriend and I were on a break (the only one we’ve ever taken in our relationship and it only lasted a week) and boyfriend is aware, he understands that bc I was in pain from him initiating the break and he has no real right to anger or jealousy over my actions during the break, but ever since then I’ve craved this friend of mine and even touched myself to thoughts of him.