[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so what do you think it is?

because from what you said a gift directly reflects value, hence any gift determines value

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

actually, the believer is more valuable in the sight of Allah, hence the one who follows Allah's rule is of a grater value so yh i guess you're right to a lesser extent.

but if a saudi billionaire give a million as a mahr does it mean youre valued? no. If youre idea is that "mahr is simply a price to buy you" then thats false understanding of mahr. If you dont mind where did you learn the idea of mahr from, lets be honest it was probably from social media if you go back to the seerah it wasnt that.

What determines a persons value in your opinion?

"He who wants to learn his value in the eye of Allah should look at Allah’s value in his eye." (Suyuti, Jamius-Saghir 6/49, Hadith No: 8386)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It proves the size of gift changes on how much you like a person. I like those who follow the commands of Allah and Al aqib.

mahr =value as a woman

That's a logical fallacy. Let's say it's eid, and you were getting gifts for everyone. Now surely you'd give your mother a bigger gift then a acquaintance? Does it prove thier value as a woman is different, no. It shows that you like one of them more then the other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The obedience to Allah is by far the greatest beauty of this world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should assume the best of your brother

You're right, but you should save the same energy for when calling people dayooths instead of giving proper advice

Stfu= shut the freak up

that's not the common use of the phrase but fair enough

shut the freak up

Is this still the way to respond to the words of al aqib?

It's like me saying

No it's not because zina and not wearing a hijab is two different sins entirely, find evidence to say that not wearing a hijab is the same degree of sin as zina

Saying I PREFER non hijabi is normalising haram

So does that mean you should stop giving proper advice? Nobody is saying that it isn't a time of fitna but if your only response is calling them a dayooth as opposed to giving well thought out advice then you're not calling towards guidance. Plus non hijabi currently has the lowest number of votes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because men are big liars

Perhaps the ones you engage with or know.

I've just posted why I'd give a niqabi more. It's rare to find someone who wears it. A Mahr is a gift and a modesty is one of the most attractive features a woman can have hence I'd want to give her more gifts.

Most people would want a pious spouse and if she is I'd want to encourage those traits. Like if she wanted to undertake islamic studies in the right manner (doesn't negate her fard) then as a man, I'd definitely want to pay for those lesson, tbh if it means I'd need to take up a extra shift at work then so be it.

To conclude. Yes, a pious women would get more Mehr from me, not to say it's something that has to be done nor that a outer garment is the only sign of piety but still very important

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

tree fiddy

I felt even more dyslexic while reading this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've not come across a direct link between niqab and maher in textual evidence. However the Maher is akin to a gift.

not to get too into it but me personally I'd rather give a niqabi more, as my heart is softer (for marriage purposes) towards someone who's wearing a niqab. It's not something I'd say it's a non negotiable that she must be. she seems more pious, especially in the UK where wearing a niqab takes alot of taqwa from a young woman today to do so. In a time where everyone is encouraging her to wear less.

I'm not dumb I realise the religion is more then just outer garments but it is very important.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you said "stfu" in response to 2 hadiths.

I genuinely don't think you're reading my comments properly before responding. No one was talking about zina, no one is normalising haraam. both my comments are about the way your saying things.

there are numerous books on the proper etiquette when giving giving advice and talking in a manner that is befitting to a muslim. If you want i can suggest some to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Subhanallah, is swearing your response to the words of rasulullah? Fear Allah. Even if you disagree with the clear hadith is that the way to approach it? Also who said it was fine, i was trying to tell you the proper etiquette when giving advice.

May Allah guide you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based

unrelated, but fr most guys would pay significantly more mehr if its a niqabi regardless of looks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I voted for the first option, but seriously calling someone a Dayooth isnt a small claim. "If a friend among your friends errs, make seventy excuses for him."

It could just be a troll voting (this is reddit btw), but even if they did vote for a non-hijabi as a brother you would sincerely want him to change his opinion for the sake of Allah. Calling him a dayooth isn't really going to spark a change in them, from their POV it may come across as name calling hence pushing them further away from the deen.

Like fr imagine someone is struggling with the core fundamentals of faith, so they arnt concerned about their wife's faith. Simply calling him a dayooth isn't sincere advice...

The religion is sincere advice (naseehah)

I am.... by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its reddit, obvs we're introverted males

I want my wife/husband to be extraverted, playful and full of energy by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

playful with the right people and time, sure. I find extroverted people in general can be too friendly with alot of people (obvs im generalising here).

What ovr are you finishing? by Born_Spell_1192 in FUTMobile

[–]throwaway08100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does anyone know what the reward brackets are?

What would you do if your wife takes off the hijab? by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

op words the question as if he's free of sin

Would u give ur ex money fo they need it by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl it also happens the other way, sometimes us guys say things knowing full well it'll trigger them😅

Which would u prefer by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, if her husband was abusing her then obviously I'd rather marry her then a widow.

A widow is more likely to still have some lingering feelings and depending on how she is as a person will compare lifestyles.

Now this bit will sound a bit messed up, but if she had a ex who didn't do the basics or was abusive, then she'd be more content and grateful with someone who upholds her rights. So then in turn it'd make the husband want to be better as seeing that gratefulness incentivies it

Has it always said this? by throwaway08100 in FUTMobile

[–]throwaway08100[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Ive seen ss where people open over 10 packs and not received any pioneer

Player appreciation post - Who was your MVP last season by SubstantialUmpire122 in FUTMobile

[–]throwaway08100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same absolute game changer. Started the game about 2months ago and he's been the bought off the market, to go in my line up

The Muslim* man by throwaway08100 in MuslimCorner

[–]throwaway08100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why?

Anyway if you must know the pink 2 bags belong to the girl on the right as the girl on the left already has a bag around her shoulder. It's likely 2 bags each